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I'm so fucking tired of that stupid bitch. So, for those of you who didn't know, I dated a girl about a month back, and the break up was very messy. It involved her laughing on the phone at her friend's house. Naturally, I was very upset. However, about two weeks later, we started talking again. And in the past few days, it appeared as if we'd get back together. Then, last night, she sent a ten page text message about how much she liked me, but couldn't be with me because she thought that it wouldn't work out, even though the circumstances are waaaay different this time. She played me. This is possibly the most I've ever liked a girl. And don't tell me its lust, because as @Nobartholem can tell you, she isn't that pretty. And now she tells me she wants to be friends. Fuck that. I don't want to be friends... But I do so badly, because of how I feel. I'm just so done. She's not making this easy. And then she has the nerve to tell me that it would make her feel sad if I was around with other girls. Like, fuck you, whore.

I never cry over a girl, but I have been for the past hour, and I did this morning in the shower. I'm devestated that it has come to this. I haven't felt this way in a long time.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Lust isn't just about looks but that's not important.

I'm sorry though I know this is really really hard :( But you do have to stop being friends.. you'll never get over her if your still friends. Just remember you weren't the happiest with her and yeah things are different now but still. Just try and hang in there and give yourself time, youre young and weren't together that long yeah it hurts and it is real but you will get over it, just takes time.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Exactly ^

Deep summed it up.. Chat me if u need help

If it turns out that she's interested in getting back together, do I disregard it as her just being flippy floppy and let it go?

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

I'm sorry to hear about that. I know how hard that can be. I know it's going to be hard, but you'll just have to move on and try to cut ties with her. Just remember what she put you through and move on. That's probably all you can do in this situation.. Just keep your head up. Keep strong.

Just disregard if she brings it up again. It's not worth going through again.

If she broke up with you and then wants to get back together, i say fuck that.
Dont make her think she can break up and go back and break up and go back and do anything she wants. She broke up, its done its over.
All you need is time. If she tries to get back together say that you cant and you can be friends . Let her know, yeah.
But its your choice . If you feel like you want to go back, do it, but if you know you are gonna go through the same things again, i say keep that in mind.

I don't think she's worth it. A lot of the time, the good things seem to outweigh the bad but if you think about how she's made you feel...I don't think she's good for you.

In all seriousness.

Do you really want this kind of drama in your life jared? I mean, if she does want you. It was nothing but trouble with Christina, I can't recall her making you happy and giddy for even a single minute.