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Old 14-07-12, 12:27 PM   #1
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So apparently I'm so horrible that my sister has to tell me this 20 times each time she's mad at me (twice a week, minimum) and has been doing so since, well, she hit puberty.

Okay so here's the story... my sister is an idiot, I'm not, and somehow this is my fault for never doing anything stupid. As the older sibling I'm supposed to be "practice" for parenting, so it seems, so that when the times comes for my sister to make the same fuck-ups - then my parents will know how they're supposed to actually handle it because they've been through it once before, so now they can fix the problem better this time.

Yeah, well, as I said - I'm not an idiot. I never had any of those prototypical teenage fuck-ups that everyone other than me seems to get involved in. My sister, however, has - quite often I'm sorry to say.

So because I'm not an idiot I figured out that, no, her friend was not over at the house. I thought they were just being too quiet at first, so much I forget they were even here, but then when I actually got up and was around where my sisters room was at I noticed something was off... they were not shrieking and giggling or talking with an absurd amount of volume like they have always done before. So naturally, I got suspicious but they are never quiet - my sister is not quiet, not unless she's hiding something from me or my dad (or both of us).


Although, so I go over to her door, and I hear a voice that is rather masculine... and that's when I've got my evidence. I didn't need to see who it was, I remembered his voice, I knew who it was because I met him the day before... when she also tried to sneak him into the house, along with the help of her friend, and he blew his cover all on his own by talking. You see, people think I'm deaf, but I'm not - I just choose not to listen to most people most of the time, but really I can hear a pin drop. So it's a really stupid idea to try and hide someone from me, esp. someone who cannot keep quiet, because I will find out about them.

Now, later I leave her door and go get me some water, then my sister leaves her room and she's getting ready to go. Next thing I know, she's acting oddly, and knowing what I know I pick up on this right away (if I didn't know, I would have figured it out because of how she was acting, just not right away). She was asking me questions about things that didn't matter, she was distracting me. And I know it, because I know how she gets when she's nervous and hiding something or someone. She was trying to annoy me out of the kitchen so that the guy could sneak out that way.

I left anyway because I did ask her "so where's the guy you're hiding?" and then the just looks insulted and starts getting all offended and saying "I can't believe you think I would do that!" and "Do you really think i would be that stupid?!" and "What, are you calling me a whore?!" and "Are you serious? Daddy's home, I'm not suicidal!"
Then she said "No one is here other than (her female friends name)"... so basically, she flat out lied to me.

She left after that, then I got up a few minutes after, after I heard someone exit through the kitchen (also, i wanted to get some more ice for my water) and my oh my what do i find other than living and breathing proof himself? I find the guy, standing behind the door, peaking through it to watch for my father to make sure he didn't run into him. He doesn't know I'm there, so I'm silently laughing to myself, but then i say "Well hello there!" and he jumps like a scared cat.

I see my dad coming through the door, I take mercy on the poor bastard and tell him to get while the gettin' is good - because as much as I would love for my father to catch my sister intentionally defying him like that... well, I really don't want to have to clean out the blood stains of the poor guy or have to put up with any law suits that may follow, so i war him. And then my sister comes in right before my dad and sees me and for a split second her expression just told me that she knew that she was royally fucked.

And for that split second I was the happiest mofo on the planet because then, then my dad sat right down in the one spot where you could clearly see both exits to our house. Our front door, and our garage door (which is close to the kitchen)... in other words, now my sister could not get him out of there without my dad seeing it. So then, he ends up talking to me for an hour... which was never my intention, I might add, it ended up that way.

Eventually my dad went to his own room and she got the guy out and before she left she begged me not to tell our parents. I told her "there's no telling what's I'll do" and "I don't know, I haven't made up my mind yet" but I never told her I wouldn't tell anyone. Because unlike her, when I give my word about something - I actually mean it. She promised me that her only company was her best female friend, but then it ended up being a guy - so she lied to me. And that, that is why I made no promise to her.

So in the end, I told our mother, and my sister (as always) overheard me telling her (stupid sneaky bitch - only quiet when she's eavesdropping) and now she hates me for it and thinks I'm the worlds worst sister EVER because of it.


And yet here's the thing, I don't care about the guy. I've met the guy, i let it slide when she snuck him into the house the first time and I was polite to him, I did not "freak out" at all about him (you see, she thinks I hate black people for some reason - and disregards the fact one of my very best friends is black). And yet did I freak out? No, not at all. I was upset the first time because she didn't tell me he was here as well.
The second time I freaked out because a guy was here alone with her in her room and then I heard a kissing sound (and no, i wasn't hearing things, I know what I heard) and that's what made me mad. Oh, that and she lied about it.
I showed her that I had no problems with the guy, at all, and yet she still thinks I'm gonna flip out over her bringing a guy over.

No, I'm gonna flip out over her lying about bringing a guy over, then her hiding him from me like she's doing something that I and our parents are going to disapprove of. That is what I'm gonna freak out over. If she would have just told me he was here in the first place then i wouldn't have thought anything of it because I met the guy the day before.

I mean really, how stupid can one person get? She's paranoid, which tells me she's up to something we don't like, which in turns makes me mad. That and her lying about it - horribly lying I might add.


So basically, here's what it sums up to, she sneaks a guy into the house, lies about it, almost gets caught, then lies about where she's driving. I happen to find out about it, help to make sure the guy isn't found, I don't tell my dad he's in the house alone in my sisters room, and then I'm honest with my mother about it and I'm the horrible sister?
I made sure her little boyfriend still has a fucking pulse while she blatantly lied to everyone in the house and yet I'm the bad guy here all because I didn't cover for her?

I'm not a liar, I'm honest with my mother, and she's lucky i didn't tell my dad - and I only didn't tell him because I would have suffered along with my sister for not telling my dad the millisecond I knew about the guy being there. So i didn't tell him so I could save my own ass, that and again with the avoiding a possible lawsuit thing and cleaning blood from the carpet.

But what it basically amounts to is that because I didn't give her what she wanted, that this makes me a horrible person. Meanwhile, back when i was her age and younger and I actually kept my share of secrets she would often go through my things to find my secrets and then eavesdrop on me all the time and then she would tell my mom, and all her friends, and certain family members and a lot of the time my days were spent doing damage control.

Oh and that's not even the kicker, no. I had one not so secret, secret once. And once she found out about she told everyone in the matter of a fucking heartbeat. No hesitation, no regard for how I felt, no anything except the desire to share what could possibly destroy me. And it pretty much did, though I was more worried for the guy who it involved at the time more-so than myself... turns out I should have been more worried about me.

Point is, I no longer have secrets, not any that anyone I personally know can find at least (or have physical proof of), because of my sister. I used to have my share of secrets as a teenager, not stupid ones like hiding guys, sneaking out of the house, lying about where I was going or who I was with, or anything like that... just things I was kind of embarrassed over at that time in my life. I'm not anymore, so now I don't have those secrets anymore. But because of my sister I learned early on that it's best not to have too many secrets or to lie, because you get caught.


But even after all of this, that's not what has made me really mad. No I'm mad because I'm expected to apologize for ratting her out. She's supposed to apologize to me too, but she hasn't, so I'm not going to either. I shouldn't be expected to apologize because I did nothing wrong, she broke the rules and I told my mom about it. That's what happened. When she was going around telling my secrets, i wasn't actually breaking any actual rules, but I still suffered for it.

And now as I am totally innocent in the matter, when she broke the rules of our house and our parents, I'm the one who still has to suffer for it. My sister even told me that she is going to make me suffer for it, and I mean it, she said that she's going to make me suffer since she got into trouble. But if I ever did something like that to her when I was younger, I would have just been in even more trouble. Because I'm the oldest and I shouldn't be so immature... right. It's more like a matter of evidence and how much crying is done. I don't cry as much when pain is inflicted upon me, and if I do then I'm expected to toughen up. If my sister is in pain then she'll cry 5 times as loudly, also be expected to toughen up, but unlike me she'll just cry even louder whereas all stifle my cries more over a matter of pride.


Long story short my sister is a grade A bitch and a hypocrite who sadistically likes to make me suffer because she's an idiot who likes breaking the rules of the house and expects me to put my ass on the line and cover for her. Problem is, it doesn't matter what I do, it'll always end with her inflicting pain upon me - even if I cover for her - so I'm not going to let her get away with it and still get hurt for it. Like hell. As I said, I'm not an idiot.

Thanks for not reading all the way through this, I'm sure none of you actually did.









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Old 15-07-12, 11:05 PM   #2
 
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Hopefully she'll grow up. Eventually. Personally, after she lied to my face I would looked for the guy. Probably would have just told him to leave, and tell my sister not to try and fool me.

Anyway, hope she grows up. For your sake.




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Old 15-07-12, 11:21 PM   #3
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To make it worse, now she's saying I'm the one who lied.
...Even though I didn't lie.

And then she goes and writes an "apology"... but then has the audacity to write "but just so you know I can't trust you anymore" as a follow-up to the supposed apology.









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Some apology. Like she even trusted you before? She lied to your face.




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If this happens again, maybe text your dad, so that he can barge into her room and catch them red-handed. but truly, i'm no help. one time, i caught my little brother and his friend (they're 12) watching some naughty stuff. the asked me not to tell, so i let it slide. but when my little brother catches ME doing something i.e. setting fire to a tennis ball dipped in gasoline, and i ask him not to tell (as it was in out five feet deep dirt-only pit in our back yard) he still runs in and tells dad and i get grounded for 3 weeks. :l i feel i've been abandoned by justice. (DX sorry for wasting your time with this, but when something like something i've experienced pops up i feel the need to get it off my chest and rant a little)




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If this happens again, maybe text your dad, so that he can barge into her room and catch them red-handed. but truly, i'm no help. one time, i caught my little brother and his friend (they're 12) watching some naughty stuff. the asked me not to tell, so i let it slide. but when my little brother catches ME doing something i.e. setting fire to a tennis ball dipped in gasoline, and i ask him not to tell (as it was in out five feet deep dirt-only pit in our back yard) he still runs in and tells dad and i get grounded for 3 weeks. :l i feel i've been abandoned by justice. (DX sorry for wasting your time with this, but when something like something i've experienced pops up i feel the need to get it off my chest and rant a little)
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My dad never uses his phone, certainly never texts at all. He really doesn't care much for cell phones. So that would never work, I'd just have to tell him to his face...

And I would get slaughtered for that by everyone in the house. It would be unwise to tell my dad anything without consulting my mother first. First of all, my sister will try to actually kill me (yeah, I told my dad about her doing something bad once, she tried to choke me a few hours later - claiming she didn't know choking actually could hurt me) and second, my mom likes to assess the situation before involving my dad. So, no, that wouldn't work.

It would only ever work if my sister never, ever, found out I clued in my dad about it. But the universe seems content to have me suffer no matter what. No matter what I choose to do, at all, she'll still make me suffer. There's no avoiding it, it's lose-lose for me always. That's the way it always has been, because I'm capable and she's not. Because I keep my cool and she can't. Because I actually use my brain and she won't.

Point is, I can't just tell my dad, that's not my call.









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I'd tell her to her face that she is a class A bitch and that she needs to drink a tall cup of grow the fuck up. Seriously. If she's old enough to drive and have boys over, she is old enough to know that for every action, there is a consequence, good or bad, and should be old enough to deal with it!








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