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she betrayed me...... i spent all the time with her and she forced me to do that....i was with her even during exams and i did not knew the fact that she prepared everything in advance and was buying my time so that i would fail.......which is exactly what happened she passed everything and i failed......this is a very serious life altering exam for ur information....and i threw it away for her.... i feel bad and i put forth a proposal and i asked her to fail a subject in the next trimister for us to be equals..... she denied......she shared alot of information with me......very deep and personal....should i make everything public and seek revenge?

NO WAY! Revenge does nothing. Only hurts people more and gets you no where. I understand that you're annoyed but you cannot seek revenge on her. It will only make matters with you worse. It won't make you pass your exams, and you will probably lose friends and make people angry. So revenge is right out. Have you spoken to her about this? And also... asking her to fail a subject to equal everything out is wrong aswell. You need to go about a nice approach to this. You need to be nice, and make her understand that you have failed your exams, and this has an impact on your life. It's also not entirely her fault, you did choose her over your exams. You did have a choice. But I do suggest you talk to her and make it clear that you have stuffed up these exams and stuff.

Good luck, just stay calm, and talk to her. Don't seek revenge, it will only make stuff worse.

What the hell are you talking about. This chick is bat shit crazy, get as far away from her as possible. If you enter a public war with her, you may not like what she has up her sleeve. She's likely prepared for you to seek revenge. Don't sink to her level. Get her out of your life.

was the "what the hell are you talking about" directed at me?

no the thread starter

ahh ok

but yes, dont seek revenge, its wrong.

Well aren't you a little vindictive ball of misplaced fury.

First off, she didn't FORCE you to do anything. You elected to spend the time with her. Just because you want it to be entirely her fault doesn't mean it is. Stop scapegoating your anger towards her, it is at least partially undeserved. You need to pull yourself out of the delusion that "this is all that bitches fault" and realize that your ass is partially to blame. Or you'll end up doing some stupid, stupid things. Like divulging her personal information.

Secondly, you call the exams "seriously life altering." This is exquisite bullshit. I defy you to find me a test you can't write next semester, or year or whatever. Yes, there are things that are "seriously life altering" but guess what! Watching in horror as your friends get gunned down and then having to use their bodies as shields... THATS life altering. Your child, running into traffic and getting hit by a bus going 80mph... THATS life altering. Being sent to prision for a murder you didn't commit, and being traded to "Bubba" the 7"1 mobster by your cellmate for 3 packs of smokes... THATS life altering.

Failing tests in a high school is most definitely not life altering!

Seriously, failing a few courses was the best thing I have ever done. Not that I advocate you stop trying (as you obviously care about school), but realizing you don't have to pass everything on the same time-line as everyone else your age is a good thing. Because you don't. Really. Slow the flow and travel at your own pace.

Thirdly, this girl is nuts? Get away?

What could POSSIBLY be her motive? Did you piss her off? She almost definitely didn't wake up one morning and go "hmmm... I think I'll screw him over today." Is there a secret society dedicated to making you fail? No, she had a reason. What was it? Think hard, what did you do? Its almost like shes pissed off at the guy (you) she was close enough to to share secrets with! She also doesn't want to be around you anymore. (Or at least not enough to fail a course... so I'm betting she wants you gone. Another symptom of "pissed off and hurt girl")

If your sure you didn't make her mad or hurt her? If so, then shes just manipulative and you got played like a violin. Cut your losses and run.

If you DID do something to make her mad, tough shit. Cut your losses and run.

Just remember, this could be the best thing that ever happens to you, in the long run.

Is it wrong? Meh. That's not really relevant. What revenge is (at least in this case) is a tactical error. Trust me kid, if you start working your mouth about this girl you may soon find your ability to talk seriously impeded, as there will be a fist hitting you in the teeth repeatedly.

In short: Cut your losses, run, realize its your fault and that it isn't a big deal.

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