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WeaverOne · 09-12-09, 03:11 AM

I've got a crush on one of my cousins friends. Unfortunatley for me my cousin would rip my head off if see found out and ummmmm.... I don't know if she likes me back.

She's in Gr. 10, 15
I'm in G. 9, 14

Help?!

Mooshface · 09-12-09, 03:14 AM

Try being friends with her and hanging out, see if she likes you back. If she does, and you both are willing to start a relationship then go for it. Why should your cousin's wishes hold you back from something you will be happy from? I think the only downfall to this idea was if you two broke up and it made things weird for your cousin cause they could never put you two in the same room again. Otherwise, I don't see a huge deal. What's your cousin's problem with it? Besides it being a friend who's only a year older than you...

21 · 09-12-09, 06:45 AM

yea if you love her just try being her friend at first

mz.relativity · 09-12-09, 09:18 AM

Becoming friends is usually a good first step. Surely your cousin wont KILL you.

WeaverOne · 09-12-09, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Mooshface

Try being friends with her and hanging out, see if she likes you back. If she does, and you both are willing to start a relationship then go for it. Why should your cousin's wishes hold you back from something you will be happy from? I think the only downfall to this idea was if you two broke up and it made things weird for your cousin cause they could never put you two in the same room again. Otherwise, I don't see a huge deal. What's your cousin's problem with it? Besides it being a friend who's only a year older than you...

She's scared that she might lose her friends because of me. (I don't steal friends tho.) Besides I know how that feels! Oh well. She'll eventually learn.

ajiachan · 09-12-09, 07:30 PM

That's always hard when they're afraid they'll loose a friend. But I agree with everyone else. Just start out being friends and see where it goes from there.

Hash · 10-12-09, 08:56 AM

well.. Id say talk to her ect. talk to your cuz.. at the end of thr day it your and her choice not ur cuzzies..

WeaverOne · 10-12-09, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ajiachan

That's always hard when they're afraid they'll loose a friend. But I agree with everyone else. Just start out being friends and see where it goes from there.

Thanks guys