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Ok so I like this girl, and I would like to ask her out....how do you girls expect a guy to start a relationship, or ask them out? Ive never had to actually ask a girl out before (well I tried once, but lets say that the flowers ended up in the custody of a very angry father....who just happened to walk in right at the perfect moment...) and you can say I am inexperienced at this sort of stuff.

I know you dont just walk up and say "Hi Im in Love with you, would like to hang out with me?" cause thats just stupid lol.

Thanks for any help.

There's no one right way to ask a girl out and if you mess it up it doesn't necessarily mean you've blown your chances. Why don't you ask if she'd like to go and see a movie at the weekend. That's a simple one but then of course, you do have to take her to see a movie. And don't just walk up to her and say it, chat with her for a few minutes about anything and then when the time is right, "I was wondering if you'd like to go and see a movie at the weekend or something."

It's corny I know but it might work.

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Thanks Rogan, howeer the closest movie theatre to where I am right now is about a 2 hour drive and I don't have my licence. :( Should I ask to take her out to dinner instead? That could work I suppose...

Hmmm that ruins the whole movie idea then lol. Dinner is always good so long as you don't take her to a MacDonalds

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I just thought Id let you know rogan, that I have now a lovely girlfriend who actually said she loves me back, ahh theres no greater feeling! Thanks for your assistance!

Yay congratulations. I'm really happy for you.
You're right. There is no greater feeling.
I hope you have a great time together.

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i think the best way to do it is to ask her if she wants to hang out sometime you could even make it a group thing the first time
make more conversation with her then you will be more comfortable talking to her then things will just flow
then youll have more confidence to tell her how you really feel
i dont really know what words you would use to ask someone out but when it happens you find something will come out of your mouth
good luck
if you need any more help pm me xxx

Maybe ask her out on a date and then after the date tell her how you feel and say to her so would you like to do this again some time and if she says yes then sweet your in if not then there are plenty more fish in the sea =]

-Cassie =]