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so i've been dating this guy on and off for bout 4 months and i moved back to this school i was going to b4 i was dating him and i like this other guy that goes to the scool that i go to now and he likes me to what should i do??? i really like this other guy but i love my boyfriend

my boyfriend has broke my heart many times like this one time i spent like $300 on a dress for the winter formal and he promised me that he wasnt going to dich me once we got there and like he ignored me for like the 1st hour then came up to me and was like i think im leaving then he went to his friend thenn came back to me and was like yea im leaving now then he tried to hug me and kiss me good bye but i pushed him away and hes broke up with me 2 times and then we got back together within a week or so but he's also been the sweetest when hes with his friends and me and it was like his frineds wernt even there he it was like he was only with me.

and this other guy is really sweet to he has hurt me yet and hes friends with my older brother so that may be a good thing and like he calls me beautiful instead of hot or sexy that makes me feel good and he says the best part of me is my eyes not my boobs or anything else like other guys and dont know anything else to say bout him i guess i dont no much bout him

help me deside what to do?!?!?!?!

Only you can make the decision about who you want to be with, we can't tell you which one you should go for.

My advise would be to speak to your boyfriend about how you're on and off with him all the time. Sit him down and tell him that you either want to be on permanently, or off permanently. Don't make him feel that everything he's doing is wrong though. If you want to be with him then you'll need to find a way to make things work together. Relationships aren't easy and never perfect but if the only thing that's making you think about this other guy is the fact that you keep breaking up and stuff, then I reckon should try and work things out as best you can.

If things keep going wrong then consider what you want to do. Think long and hard about who you'll be happiest with and who you will be able to love the most. Weigh up the advantages and disadvantages of each guy and try and don't just listen to your head and heart, listen to every part of you. It might just be that you like this other guy because he's new and different some what you're used to (and maybe bored of) with your boyfriend.

I hope this helps. Sorry my advice isn't very good.

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Hmm... obviously I wouldn't really know, but maybe you should go for the new guy? If your boyfriend has been so on and off with yee, surely that means he would be able to accept that you wanted to be with someone else? and if it didn't work out with the new guy, you might have a chance of getting him back? xxx

Obviously I wouldn't really know but you should go for the guy you feel comfortable around and who you trust most etc.

Only you can make that desision

Jess x x

as with everyone else's comments, its up to you, but from an advice perspective I'd say f your current bf has treated you like that, he doesnt deserve so many chances.

I'd give your other friend a chance, he might just be the better choice by the sounds of it.

i think you need to get to know the new guy again before you make any decisions but after that your heart will tell you the right thing to do
you need to think about who you are happier with, whos nicer to you, who you care about the most
i advise you not to make any snappy decisions
if you need anyone to talk things through with feel free to pm me
good luck girl xxxx