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I went to a party on friday night and now i feel like I'm a proper slag...
I started off by kissing my best friend, whos a girl it was a dare but now everyones talking about it :/
Then I sat on someone elses knee all night sucking his thumb all night (don't ask) and then got off with him later on, I've now realised he's got a girlfriend who completely like mental and I know she's gonna kill me at school tomorrow :/
Then I got off with the guy who's party it was not realising he actually genuinely liked me so now I feel like I've upset him!
and apparently i got off with someone else that night who I knew I was pretty close to all night.
Now EVERYONE on facebook is talking about it and I know everyone at school tomorrow I know I'm gonna get a lot grief :/
Eurgh, I dunno what I can do now though :(
I dunno whether I'm looking for advice or what just want an honest opinion :/
but let it go.. ppl may comment tomorrow and the following days but then , when they realise that you don't give a shit about what they say, they will drop the subject and they'll find another one to mess with
Unfortunately, there's not an awful lot you can do about it. People will comment and say things but it probably won't last too long and everyone will forget about and move on to whatever the next thing is going to be. In the meantime, my advice would be to just keep your head down and try to not let it get to you. See what your friends are like with you and where you stand with all of them and you'll be able to go from there.
Good luck.
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To be honest I'd just take things as they come, I mean getting off with four different people at a party, there isn't really much of an excuse other than you were drunk (You were, right? ) and so just explain that maybe the drink got the better of you and so you behaved the way you did. But really as time goes on people will stop talking about it, it's just one of those things really.
Well, you did mess up, but i think you already know that.
the best you can do is apologise to everyone who you think you upset, make sure there are no hard feelings.
As for all the talking, you just have to wait it out, soon it will be old news. and you should really try not to do things like this again, you dont want to have a rep because otherwise people are going to stop respecting you.
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