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okay. so all my friends were saying that the guy you Kiss [girlsaskguys.com]on new years is the guy your supposed to spend the year with. I didn't believe them and I still don't. the thing is I DID have a new years Kiss and now I really like the guy. not all that complicated. yet.
i'm pretty sure he liked me for a little while after ]new years [girlsaskguys.com] but I was so shaken by the kiss that I wasn't sure about anything. (first kiss, ever, only person I've ever made out with...) and I will admit I blew him off when I had the chance. (this guy I have crushed on since like 7th grade spent the entire night ]flirting [girlsaskguys.com] it up *it didn't go anywhere*) now I've spent the entire weekend thinking about that new years kiss and how I'd like it to happen again. my think I'm crazy, I'm getting confused. I know for a fact (because he told me) that he'd be friends with benifits at any time. I don't wanna be friends with benifits I want a relationship [girlsaskguys.com] with him. I kinda pulled an idiotic move and texted him saying that I had been thinking about new years all weekend. he hasn't responded. its been like 8 hrs. either he's ignoring me or he hasn't gotten it yet. either way I don't know what to do. any suggestions on how I should fix/handle this whole thing?

I think that you're probably just over-thinking everything and you just nee to relax about the whole situation. Now that you've text him, wait until he replies. Don't keep bombarding him with messages otherwise you'll probably scare him off. He's probably just busy or away from his phone at the moment. It's unlikely that he's ignoring you. Just sit back a bit and see how things go and you'll be able to go from there and see whether he wants to be in a relationship or not. Ignore what your friends say about spending the year with the guy you kissed. It's a load of rubbish and the fact that you do want to be with this guy isn't because you kissed him on new years but the kiss did make you like him (if that makes any sense).

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agree with rogan

so he still hasn't answered me and i saw him today before school b.c. of our group of friends. we both kinda kept to ourselves and didn't say anything. i think i might just pretend i never sent him that message and hopefully things go back to the way they were.

You could do that and then try and get closer to him so that he notices you more and maybe shows whether he likes you too. Just be yourself and let him get to know you more and then you'll be able to see where things go from there. He might like you too and is just nervous about it or maybe he isn't sure about how he feels right now.

Just give it time and if things are meant to develop, then they will.

Invention, my dear friends, is 93% perspiration, 6% electricity, 4% evaporation, and 2% butterscotch ripple.
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The truth is out there...anybody got the URL?
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Don't forget to be awesome.

Okay sounds good. thanks for the help