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ok so this may be confusing....
me and this guy started talking over the summer... we came to college and became best friends. throughout 1st semester we had so many problems it was crazy...but the things was we had fell in love. So now finally we go out and im trying to think if i love him....here's the thing....

i always want to be around him....
we are so silly together he make me laugh
sometimes when we are alone and he pulls me to him close and slowly kisses me. =)
i feel so shy and my hearty skips a beat.

but there are other time when it just so impossible to get him to talk to me...like everyday i make him upset. Today i didnt so that good. but yeah. i can tell that he loves me but do i love him?

im just so confused. i want to be with him but i feel as though something is blocking the way.....

If you're unsure whether you love him or not, I think this confirms it. From what you've said here, it sounds as though you really like him and definitely love him.

Why do you upset him nearly every day and why is it impossible for you to talk to him?

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Only you know if you love him

What do you mean by you upseting? him most days? x

basically what he goes through is mood swings...like right now....usually when he gets upset he gets quiet and is in a bad mood.

Sometimes its not me, other times it is. =/ and its ovber stupid stuff....

Right now he is mad and idk why...he keep saying he is fine but i know he isnt.

Alycia, are these mood swings something you think your boyfriend should see a doctor about? Or he is currently seeing someone about them?

From what you said in your first post, it sounds to me as though you definitely do love your boyfriend and you shouldn't blame yourself when he gets upset over "stupid stuf" as you put it. I think that the thing you feel is getting in the way could be these mood swings he has and obviously I don't know the severity of this, but if you feel it is a serious thing, then maybe talking to him about seeing a professional about them will make him feel better and bring you two closer together. (whoah long sentence!)

If you don't think that it's a good idea, or he refuses then all you can do in my opinion is do everything you can to be there for him when he's mad or upset. Being worried about him like this shows that you care and if he knows that he has someone close to him who cares, then he might feel better about things, and then so will you.

Invention, my dear friends, is 93% perspiration, 6% electricity, 4% evaporation, and 2% butterscotch ripple.
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The truth is out there...anybody got the URL?
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Don't forget to be awesome.

Nawww it sounds like you are in love. maybe just sit down and have a good chat with him and see how he feels about you.Because if you are saying that you make him upset everyday not being rude or mean but that don't sound like he loves you.

-Cassie =]