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i split up with him about 5 months ago, we were only together for a month but i still have feelings for him. when we split up we gradually stopped talking but i met up with him today and he told me that he missed me. i dont think he feels the same as i do about him. and i dont know if he just misses me as a friend. what can i do ? :(

Ask him how he feels? He said that he missed you, so there's a good chance he still likes ya. If he's honest and does admit to feeling strongly about you, perhaps you could give the relationship another shot.

It's not going to be easy to get over someone, especially if all you do is think about him. If he proclaims to miss you, maybe you should spill your feelings to him and see how he takes it. Don't go all out and tell him, "I miss you so much, yayayayayayada".. Talk to him, see how's he doing, if he's with someone, and is he the one that broke up the relationship or you?

I would talk to him about what he meant my 'I miss you'. He could possibly still like you. I would get him to say if he misses you as a friend or as a girlfriend before you go all out like: "I miss you soooooo much! I wish we never had broken up!" blah blah blah.

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I think the answer lies in why you split up. If you can see a good reason for that, you'll just have to remember what it was and keep yourself away from him. Feeling fade eventually. Even if it takes forever.

If you haven't got a clear view of why you shouldn't be with him, well, maybe you should check him up again.