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hey
theyre this guy who i like who also likes me and we wanna get together
but there is this bitch in our collge spreading horrible rumours about us and trying to go out with him
he doesnt like her but he dosent know how to deal with her
we really wanna get together but feel we cant as of her
any ideas?xx

It's simple really, ignore her.

Seriously, don't let others get in the way of a potentially good relationship. If you and this guy want to be together, then be together. If this girl (or bitch, as you refer to her as ) wants to spread rumors, let her do it. It just goes to show that she's immature, selfish, and jealous. If other people believe her rumors, then they're just as stupid as her.

You know the truth. You and this guy love each other. Isn't that all that matters?



Good luck!

punch the bitch in the face. Thats what i would do if any hoe tried to take my man lol

Skater are you really trying to get someone kicked out of college? Most importantly, over a guy?

To the OP: You should ignore the girl. She's obviously jealous and spreading rumors won't do anything but make him want her less. You continue being with the guy and try to avoid her. Yes, you might bump into her from time to time, but there's this action that you can take.. And that will be to ignore her and not retaliate. Once she sees there's nothing she can do by you guys being together, she'll give up [eventually]. As long as you guys know what's true and what isn't then everything should be OK. Once the people she have spread the rumors to, found out you guys are doing well, and having a healthy relationship, they'll forget all about the little rumor and find something else to talk about. Hey, it's life.

Made me laugh.

thanks
SpirtSharD thanks for the advice - will try
Skater - thats a bit mad , i dont think im up for that, i dont really wanna be expelled but thanks anyway
Candescene - thanks , thats what weve been trying to do but it seems to be making things worse
and
SpiritSharD - lol

thanks for the advice guys x