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im 15 yrs old and have never had a boyfriend its relli depressing.people tell me im pretty and have a nice body but why dont boys like me. my best friend has had lots and even on facebook alll my friends are girls

Uh, no it isn't sad.
Not sad at all. I'm 17, almost 18, and I've never had a boyfriend.

Don't feel you're sad just because your friend has had a lot.
It could just be that boys are interested in you but haven't made a move yet.
Just wait, not everyone has the same experiences all at the same age you know.

but its not only her its all my friends even the ones dt act like boys

Yeah, so? My point still stands.
Just because it's happened to your friends doesn't mean it's gonna happen to you.
That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Actually I think you should feel glad as-is with not having to worry about a relationship.

Some guys like certain things in girls. Some like girlie-girls, some like tom-boys, etc.
All guys are different, all girls are different. It's a matter of matching those things up - just because you haven't met someone you match up with doesn't mean it won't happen.
It just means it's not happening now.
That, however, doesn't mean you're sad or anything.

I was surrounded by the same things when i was your age - it got annoying.
But, unlike my friends, I shot down every low-life that always came onto me - which eventually lead to no one coming on to me. Which did make me think I was weird for a while.
But unlike my friends, I also had standards - high standards.

Point is, you are you. You are not your friends. Their individual qualities match up with their boyfriends individual qualities.
You just haven't met that guy yet - but it'll happen so there's no point in worrying about it or trying to rush it.
Your friends are not you, they are not the same as you either. Naturally the things that happen to them will not happen to you on the same level or at the same time, whatever.

ok but just dont feel like i fit in

I'm 17 year old Male here.

I've been told I'm cute, funny, intelligent, kind, polite, friendly, etc etc...

...and I've never had a girlfriend.

You're not alone.

Be patient, and hopefully a decent guy will come along one day who you can have a fantastic, long-term relationship with. You sound alright to me, so it's bound to happen sooner or later. At the age of 15 you shouldn't really be worrying about it anyway. You are NOT sad.

Best of luck!

Same thing as Kirk, I've never had a Girl Friend, but I dont consider that a huge disappointment on my part, because I still have a life ahead of me, Dont worry about things like that

Same here im 15 and i still don't have a girlfriend it makes me mad but if you
think about it that one day your whole life might change when a pretty boy or
something of that nature just comes to you and is interested in you and it changes your world and so you just have to be patient and hope for that day it may come tomorrow for all we know out of the blue you just have to keep you head held up high and smile.


Here's something from the Bible that you might want to look at:
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy.
Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;
It is not self-seeking, nor easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongdoing.
It does not delight in evil,
But rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, and preserves.
There is nothing love cannot face;
There is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things that last forever:
Faith, hope, and love;
But the greatest of them all is love.

~1 Corinthians 13:4-7

THE KEY WORD OR WORDS FOR YOU WOULD BE "LOVE IS PATIENT"

Good luck and smile a bit!

no your not sad
people get boyfriends at different ages
just think about it
people who get bfs later have much better relationships which consequently end up in the long run happier
dont worry about it
seriously
good luck girl xx

Preferably I'd want a woman but I see your point.