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why do they cheat most guys do because ti gives them a sense of accomplishment and makes you feel like ur "the man" cuz u have ur girl and one on the side/ whats going thru there head ? "oh hell yeah i hope my girl dont find out " and it isnt about being hapy or nto happy the majority of the time most peole just use that as an excuse to make themselves look better when they do

To be honest temptation is a b))ch and alot of times its really hard to walk away from it

I hate the fact that it's usually men who get put in the "cheating" catagory. When it comes down to it I say most people will part take in some form of cheating throughout their lives.. Obviously some will take it to a further extent but I think everyone has it in them.

Sure, you have those idiots who do it for the thrill but the majority of the time people are confused and put into awkward situations where they can't choose. Also, I think it's possible to like two people at the same time.

I'm not in any way justifying cheating though. People should really figure out how they feel before they make any rash actions that'll end up hurting people they care about. Humans are naturally selfish though. Fact.

Juts because you've cheated on somebody doesn't necessairly mean you don't have feelings for them. You may not have any emotional attatchment to the girl you had sex with aferwards, it may just have been a mistake. It can be "just sex." People have one night stands, doesn't mean they have any emotional attatchment to the other person. Likewise, sometimes people participate in threesomes with their girlfriend and someone else, does that mean they love the other girl? Open marriages aswell...the couple sleep with other people but it doesn't mean they don't love each other.

I know those examples aren't the same as cheating, and I'm not saying it's right to cheat. I'm not trying to make excuses. I'm trying to say that you can have feelings for someone still even if you did sleep with somebody else (I'll avoid using the word love because we obviously disagree on whether I could "love" my girlfriend after I had cheated on her.) Do you think that there aren't any relationships that have worked despite one memeber cheating on his partner at some point? I'm not saying that it's alright, everyone can go out and sleep with who they want as it's just sex. What I am saying is that the person who cheats isn't necessarily looking to break up with his girlfriend, it might just have been a mistake.

Well acctualy it dose.It means that you dont care so much for that person.

Disagree with this statement.

When you're in a relationship, you always have a choice in whether or not you cheat. No exceptions.

love and relationships are more complicated than that you know.

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yes it is more complicated then that but if you really and truly love someone then why cheat and why would you want to take that risk of losing that person thats what i don't understand.I would never go back to a person who did that to me and I no what its like I have seen my mom go though it my dad did that to my mom and i will never forgive him for that he broke our family because of it and when there are kids Involved and they find out why they are not together and its because of cheating how can you forgive that person

Jess pretty much answered it for me.

As I said, I'm not in favour of cheating. I never once used the word love..I agree if you're in love with someone you wouldn't do that. But in general, especially with people around our age that isn't the case. Situations vary. Sometimes there are genuine reasons why people would be tempted to cheat and not all of them are because their total scumbags with no morals.

relationships can be complicated but thats only because you made it that way and ok then let me put it this way if you care about someone and all the reason that people have put on here don't really seem to be good enough reasons to do that to someone when its all said and done if you can't have it all with one person then find someone you can have it all with and not cheat it is as easy as that