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Jems · 09-05-10, 06:12 PM

I think you missundertood us. There is so many why someone would cheat. There is TOO many reasons that we can't generalise like that. In fact, every situation should be take seperatly.

jess215 · 09-05-10, 07:34 PM

no i get i guess there is and never will be a good reason for it and will never understand how someone can do that to some who they care about or love

Jems · 10-05-10, 05:18 AM

No, there is no good reason, but humans are humans and we do make mistakes and we do have complicated feeling. Nothing is black and white like you seems to think.
Do you have a personal expererience?

jess215 · 10-05-10, 08:56 AM

yes i have a personal experience my dad did that to my mom when i was 4 1/2 years old and they are not together he just told me not that long ago thats what he did and i saw how much it killed my mom it took her 13 years to start dating again and i saw my friend go though it about a month ago but me i never let anyone get to close to do that to me. I just wanted to see what people say about why people cheat

Nycegurl16 · 13-05-10, 01:06 PM

I highly doubt that anyone knows the REAL meaning of LOVE. And cheating is stupid have balls and pick one girl or guy that is right for you and stick with them. If you do cheat then I believe karma will come right back around for you and then you will know how it feels.

jess215 · 13-05-10, 03:03 PM

i believe that to karma will get you it always does and you will no if its real love when you find it

Porcelain Heart · 13-05-10, 03:53 PM

Again..I think in general it's way more complicated than that.

beH otso · 14-05-10, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Rogan

There are several reasons why people decide to cheat. It could be that they aren't getting as much sex as they need from the relationship they're currently in but still love the person. They might be bored with the sex they have and want to try something new. Then there's the thrill of doing something forbidden and enjoying the risk of being caught. People could cheat out of hatred or spite for the other person. For men mainly, it can be an ego boost to be able to get another girl into bed.

I agree with you though, If you want to sleep with someone else, at least have the decency to break it off with the person you're currently with.

its not all about the sex... people cheat coz maybe wat the girl or boys give is not enough for them so they try to find it to someone else..