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Old 11-05-10, 11:03 AM   #1
 
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Icon9 If it hurts this much it must be love?

I really need your help guys, i've been with a guy for seven months, pretty much until about two months ago its been amazing, but all we seem to do is fight, when we see each other. I think i love him, because i can't imagine my life without him, but we get to see each other once a week if that, i'd love to see him everyday but he can't, or his mum says no. i just don't know what to do anymore, stay or go? someone help xx
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Old 12-05-10, 07:53 PM   #2
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Every situation is different but if you really love like him that much you probably would try and work things out more before giving up.
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If I was in your situation right now, I would write him a letter. Take time to sit down and write to him explaining exactly how you feel about everything. Say that the fighting is really hurting you and that you wish you could just talk and discuss things normally; but also say how much you miss him and wish you could spend more time with him. By writing things down, you can tell him exactly what you need to without it turning into another fight and he can then read the letter at a time that suits him. He won't be able to use the excuse that he's too busy to speak to you.

If you can't work things out between you and it carries on how it is at the moment then you have to ask yourself whether you would be happier how things are now or happier without him altogether. If you can answer that question, then you will know what you should do.

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no better way to put it ^^

a letter is by far the best way to do it. you can say everything you need and not have it escalate. good luck




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Old 14-05-10, 05:25 PM   #5
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i agree letter is good not to metnion it shows meaning behind it as well i mean at least where i am from no one really writes letters it's emails and texting
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