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"Yeah, you're right, it's too hot to be outside, how about another movie?"

"Yeah, it's too hot to be outside, how about a pizza at *insert your favorite pizza place here*?

"yeah, it's too hot outside, how about roller skating/bowling?"

Hmmm okay got it.

Any other idea's cause I spent almost 40 bucks on the movie but it was the best 40 bucks I spent.....

Yeah, dating can be expensive. Bowling? Skating? Try to limit the 'extras' like candy, soda, etc.

Outdoor activities are cheaper, walking downtown is free, so is the park or the mall. The idea is to be with her, the activity is the excuse.

Yea that's what I'm thinking, but the walking downtown thing I don't think that would work cause my mom is like a hawk but I don't know if I could do that, but I have never asked my mom if I could do that....I mean at least I could give her a reason that it costs to much to go out these days and stuff like that.

(lol i hope that made since cause I was just writing down stuff lol)

You'd have to work that out with your mom first, before suggesting it to your sweetie. But, you get the idea...

Yea I know....So how many or how long do wait till you bring the subject of making it "Official"?....Should you wait for her to bring that up or should I bring that up? If so then should it be like a causal thing or straight to the point?

(lol sorry for all the questions my first dating environment and experience)

"Official" as in "Going out"? That varies. Personally, I think at the very minimum, you should have more than one date! Meet up with her another time and see how it goes and we can talk more.

"Official" as in like "Boyfriend and Girlfriend"....Yea I know I should go out with her and stuff I'm just wondering lol

Awwww.....you're thinking about her!

It went well, so you're on the right track here! Go out again, duplicate the good time (whatever you do), and you'd be 2 steps closer!

You're boyfriend and girlfriend when there's a connection btw'n you based on some time together and the feelings that come from that.

Here's a neat thing, btw, that will help. Find out what her favorite gum is, and always have some with you, so you can offer her some. It shows that you care about her in a very subtle, yet powerful way.