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Hello I've got great news I have finnaly got a date to the movies with a girl and I need some more tips on what to do during the date and after the date....

Anyway I want to thank ALL of you who have supported me and given me advice at my threads please this makes me so happy....but its not done yet and i need your help so please post!

It's great to hear that you've got a date, you must be chuffed!

I'm not sure how I feel about giving you tips though. If she's already agreed to go to the cinema with you, the chances are that she simply likes you and spending time with you - so you don't have to do much aside continuing to be yourself!
Just be calm and happy. Nerves can make people quiet and awkward which doesn't set the best mood for a date, so remember that she's agreed to come out with you simply because she wants to, and there isn't a role that you have to play. The cinema is always a safe first date because if you find that you're a little shy, you don't have to do lots of talking. However, if it comes down to it, I'm sure she'd appreciate you expressing an interest in her - so asking her about what she likes and dislikes, her holidays, where she grew up etc. is an easy and insightful conversation.

STOP. ARE YOU READING THE ABOVE POST?
If not, do it. I'm beginning to get the impression that 50% of TF is populated by literate parrots/sentient mirrors.

Pretty much what Kerry said, just be yourself.

Other than that, well done and good luck!!

'Chuffed', lol, I just love those Britishisms!

Kerry uses far more charming language than we Yanks do, but I'd agree with her here. She already likes you, so the hard part is over! Just relax and be yourself, remember to listen as well as talk, ask her q's about some of the things she's mentioning, it shows interest and it keeps the convo moving. Smile a lot, and don't forget to compliment her!

Movies are great first dates b/c even though you're together, you're also focusing on something other than each other, so there's less pressure to talk. Afterwards, there's always the movie to talk about.

If it goes well, you can go for a walk or maybe get some ice cream, but b/c it;s a first date, it can be relatively short. make sure you tell her you're having a really nice time, and maybe ask her if she'll do this again sometime with you (if you feel that way).

Thanks you guy's...AND girl's...I just love British people...

Glad to be of amusement.

STOP. ARE YOU READING THE ABOVE POST?
If not, do it. I'm beginning to get the impression that 50% of TF is populated by literate parrots/sentient mirrors.

In a good way I mean.

Any way today is a big day for me because I will be going to the movies today with her I pray and hope that every thing will be okay. I will post and tell ya'll what happened so hang tight!

Note: Planing for your first date can be a little hard!

Again, best of luck. I look forward to reading your next post.

Awwww......! Well, relax and just be yourself. If you're not sure what to say, look her in the eyes and smile warmly.

*Crosses fingers*

Well I'm back so good news is that it was excellent and thats pretty much what I can say lol...........bad news is that.......I dont have any bad news lol...lol Joking Nothing bad to report its all good!