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how old is she?

Well I told my mom like a week ago that i looked her up on facebook and shes not bad looking. she told me not to get any ideas. Suddenly, out of the blue today, she said I better not do any 'weird' stuff with her (not sexual stuff, just flirtacious stuff) and that it could seriously ruin her relationship.

I swear, moms...they have something in their head. No matter how hard you try to keep something from them, even for a little while, they end up knowing.

Erik, your mom is thinking about this in the same way as i am.

I think there's real concern for the awkwardness of you guys actually acting on this flirtation. I'd recommend you keep it in your head and enjoy it privately, and when you're with her, keep some boundaries on it.

As you guys get used to each other, I suspect this *attraction* will wear off and (hopefully) be replaced by a more conventional step sib relationship.

Yeah, I guess I hope so too...And to answer you danny, we're both 14. same grade too.

Well, now she wants me to come visit her and her dog sometime. She also gave me her number and told me to text her sometime.

God, if only she wasn't my moms boyfriends daughter...If only.

well, is suppose it is alright, after all you aren't blood related? I reckon that if this worls out for you, it would be cool, but maybe talk to your parent...

what is she like?
did you texted her?
does she have a bf already?

No we're not blood related. If we were, well, then, I'd be one helluva creep, haha.

Well shes extremely nice danny, laughs at everything I say, always looks at me and smiles at me, asked me why I was getting out of the pool when I said I'd be back in 2 minutes (had to go to the bathroom) and waited at the edge of the pool for me, instead of playing with the other kids in the pool. She asked me to text her last night, so I did, and we did for a good hour.

Then I felt, hmm, maybe I should ask someone who knows her at her school what she thinks of her. So I went onto facebook and told this girl who goes to her school about the situation, she felt bad and said that it sucks. But she said that the girl is an extremely sweet and caring person.

Idk, I can't get her off my mind. I'm just going to be really, really friendly, almost but not enitirely flirty with her, so that if something happens with our parents, I could ask her out and immediately she'd say yes.

Erik, but she is your mom's boyfriend's daughter. Keep repeating that to yourself.

It's OK to be her friend, to txt her and hang out with her, just keep the erotic/emotional/romantic stuff/desires in your head, that's all. That's private.

It's Ok to keep your feelings and desires out of a relationship.

If theres no blood ties dive into it.