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Old 08-07-10, 01:44 PM   #1
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Icon9 Please help, i don't know what to do

Hey. I have a girlfriend but she's in a different class. We don't see eachother often and when we do we dont even talk .__. all we do is give eachother a quick hug or kiss and then nothing. I don't know what to do now.. should i break up with her or wait until she does? I still love her. Besides i think she likes somone else that is in her class but im not sure about that.. Please someone give me an advise.

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why don't you try to see her after class?? invite her to go for a wak or to your house.. something like that










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Old 08-07-10, 02:01 PM   #5
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I'm 14, shes 13. We're in the same Year group.
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Aww(:
School isn't the only place to see your girl. You could take her to the park, movies, wherever. Maybe to make things more bearable at school you could write each other notes and swap them during class change. It's tough being in the same building as the person you like and knowing they're there but never getting to see them. But work at it. You sound like you really like this girl(:

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why don't you try to see her after class?? invite her to go for a wak or to your house.. something like that
i asked her out to cinema 2 times.. The first time she couldn't because she was in London and second time when i asked her if she wants to go cinema Sunday ( was recently) she said that she's going with her friends to watch Twilight; when twilight was coming out in 2 weeks on Sunday.. so i relised she's kind of lieing to me so i gave up askin her to go cinema ._.
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This is actually very similar to a "relationship" I had in high school. Funnily enough, we were the same age.

I suggest you break up with her mate. I'm talking from "experience" here when I say it probably won't work. Sorry to be blunt.

By all means, give it a shot and keep it up, but communication is a key part in relationships and if you're not even speaking then, well, what's the point?
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Aww(:
School isn't the only place to see your girl. You could take her to the park, movies, wherever. Maybe to make things more bearable at school you could write each other notes and swap them during class change. It's tough being in the same building as the person you like and knowing they're there but never getting to see them. But work at it. You sound like you really like this girl(:

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I usually go up to her during break to ask if shes alright and give her a hug and then suddenly it goes silent and there is nothing to talk about .__. I start feeling stupid just stading in silence so I tell her to go with her mates cuz they're calling her. Oh and i take her to her class sometimes if i see her.
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This is actually very similar to a "relationship" I had in high school. Funnily enough, we were the same age.

I suggest you break up with her mate. I'm talking from "experience" here when I say it probably won't work. Sorry to be blunt.

By all means, give it a shot and keep it up, but communication is a key part in relationships and if you're not even speaking then, well, what's the point?
That's the question i ask my self every day ! And i cant decide what to do ://// there is nothing to talk about with her cuz shes in a different class i supose, but i rly dont want to break up with her
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