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maybe she is ill , you have to call , i know it's difficult but to avoid the lose of your pride tell her that you are worriend about her and her health because she promised to call back and she didn't
Good luck
So,I called her on Tuesday. She said that she is sorry that she didn't call but that she wasn't able to do so.
We will meet today.
Well... I don't know what I should expect but I am looking forward to it.
Good for you for taking the lead here and making the call! See? it worked out, you're getting what you want, a meeting.
Expectations are over rated, you know. they're often inaccurate and misleading, the minds way of applying balm to anxiety and apprehension. Go there with the expectations of meeting someone you want to, and don't get too far ahead of the story in your head.
Well... it was good.
We talked alot but it didn't feel like a date. More like 2 friends talking.
But I can't say right now if I like that or not.
To be honest... it's enough for me if we just meet at the moment,it doesn't have to be a date.
But what next? Should I give her a chance to call me? Or do I have to be the one calling her once again?
Glad it went well. It doesn't really sound like a date, the expectation was a simple meeting. Two folks of the opposite gender getting together doesn't qualify as a date. for that to happen, there needs to be some romantic component, the expectation/hope/chance.
If you enjoyed yourself and want to pursue it, and maybe take it to a different, possibly romantic level, you should absolutely call, and ASAP! Do NOT wait for her to call (where'd you get that idea from, anyway, you keep raising it?). If she didn't like you, she would have sent vibes out during your meeting. Girls sometimes make the next move, but their choice not to is not necessarily an indication of their feelings.
Call (on the phone, not IM!), chat, let her know you had a nice time, it was good seeing her, and that you like her and would like to see her again.
Where did I get that idea from?
Because I always was like,if she would want sth. from me then she had called me...guess that idea stuck in my head over the time :/.
So, I guess I'll call her.(what do you mean with IM? instant message? like sms,msn or what?)
But the problem is... I have absolutely no idea where we could go then^^.
We went to a park last time. I need at least two or three ideas I can offer her.
But nothing like a cafè or restaurant,thats kinda too kitschy.
Sam's rule for life: Get what you want. (Translation: Pursue your goals actively ). If you want her, call her, don't wait. And surely don't wait/expect, or even want/wish/hope/desire that she calls first. Feelings don't get you what you want,. only actions do!
Pick up the phone, say something sweet and complimentary about her and your meeting, and ask her to a movie.
I'll call her tomorrow.
I know,I should have done it already but I'm still to careful.
I'm surprised how well it goes at the moment... I need to gather myself again.
But I'll do that... hopefully it's not already too late.
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Re: How should I proceed?
