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ok well i bet when ya saw t title of mi thread you thought my gf is a slut, well she isn't rele she is just made out to be onme because she has been with alot of guys but she aint ever found one before she could have a meaningful relationship wiv. she has been made outto be t baddy but she aint. her name is Tay (Taylin) she is rele good looking, and rele sexy and loads of the dudes at scool have taken advantage of dat. they have slept wiv her and took photos and shared them around school n stuff lik dat. she has been made out to be this slutty whore and she aint. she is down to earth. but this is the problem. mi parents know about her and i and they also know bout her reputation and they told me that she aint good enuff for me. that i aint going anywhere near her. well that aint gonna happen. ppl r ripping the piss out of me coz i aint slept wiv her yet and truth is i dnt know whether i want to at this moment in time, ya know i hae just got wib her and i dnt wanna treat her like shit. i try to stick up for her a school but yh that is a fail help me pplz

*Sigh* you didn't state your age here. Also, if you wouldn't mind speaking 'regular' English, it's easier to understand.

So, the issue is that you're dating a girl with a history. Unfortunately, everyone seems to know about that history. I feel for your g/f here, it sounds like she's been used and betrayed a lot. It's nice that you seem to see her differently and have different reasons for your involvement. You might want to acknowledge that with your folks, maybe even remind them that they taught you to treat people with respect and not prejudge them based on who they are or what they've done. Nothing like a good teaching moment, even for kids.

With regards to the other guys, you can either 1) Just ignore them, or, 2) Tell them to mind their own business. Or, 3) Both.

Typically, guys stop this nonsense when they see their behavior has no effect on anyone.

First, I love that English. It's my own I find boring.

Anyhow, I didn't get one thing: Why are worried about your friends expecting you to have your turn with her? In particular, if you want to have a long lasting relationship?

How about just getting friends with her?

Pfft, your girlfriend is a slut. Go find somebody less disgusting.

Honestly, that English, or whatever that is, needs to be fixed.

On topic: You need to prove to your parents and everyone else that her reputation doesn't fit her. It's good that you stick up for her, I'm sure she appreciates it.

she must be if she let them take pictures and do the stufffffffffff

i can read ur writtin just fine mate, as 4 ur gf, well thats very tricky, i know my mom don't like my bf but at da end of da day u gotta go with what ur feelin n not care what anyone else thinks, or the other hand maybe she was a little nieve to let dem take photos of her but i'm sure she's learnt from experience. hope it works out for u

Well I believe you are a bit confused. Sometimes you would say she isn't a slut but yet your titile is that she is the school slut. If you know she is really qood lookinq and been around alot of boys why do you want to be with her so bad .

Is there somethinq that you are lookinq for in her . Most importantly why would she let them take advantaqe of her . The first time okay i understand but over and over she must like it .

There is no a real reason to stand up for her because i believe she is puttinq on herself . Just because she is down to earth doesn't mean anythinq. You may love her just alittle more than she can handle .

I believe there is somethinq she is not tellinq you. If you want to be with her its best to find out what you have to work with . Your parents are judqinq her just like everyone else , so maybe you can prove them wronq .

Good Luck