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Look I'm Having trouble with this one guy, he makes me laugh, he is nice to me.
I've sent him signals, I think he understands, I smile at him in class and he smiles back. I've tried to be friends with him but my BFF HATES him! :'(
I have no idea what to do...PLEASE HELP!!!! :redface:

Is your concern here your BFF?

If so, find out what it is that she 'Hates', address that issue directly with her (as in, "Well, exactly what is it that makes you HATE him?"). Have her be very specific, nothing vague.

Either she knows something about him, or otherwise has a perspective worth hearing. Or she's being jealous and possessive, in which case you'd need to provide reassurance that there's no threat to her status as BFF, AND she needs to stop saying things and behaving negatively and trying to interfere here.

well, i think you should make your bff understand that , if she/he is indeed your bff, she/he'll want what's best for you. and what is best for you other than happiness??

also,try to find the reason why she/he hates him..

Yeah well, he teased her a couple years back and such. But now he is quite a bit nicer to her. And REALLY nice to me.
Oh and my concern here is the guy, how do I ask him out?

Straight to the point . just ask him out, Or find a party or any current events where you may think he would like to go , then ask him , or well.. just ask him its so much easier

I agree with Maria. Ask him if he wants to go out for dinner one evening or to see a movie or something. Guys like it when a girl asks them out and if he's being really nice to you then chances are he'll say yes. Take the first step and enjoy yourself.

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Thanks guys I'll ask him! <3