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Bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch, that's all i've done for the past few days.
All I've done is bitch about how horrible my boyfriend is to me, and now I feel horrible because I get to his house, with a face like thunder, not really wanting to be there, and he's gone and bought me a card with a massive paragraph of how sorry he is and the dress I wanted in, get this, the right size.
Wow, I feel horrible!
So, So, So horrible, because I know that I CONSTANTLY bitch about him alll the time, and he doesn't even have to hardly do anything for me to get anoyed about it.
Bleh,
Any ideals on what I can do for him, seeing as he went and did that for me?!
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides.
advice? dont rush on being bitchy or saying things , now you see maybe you were a lil bit exagerated ..anyway , yu can always offer him something he actually wants too , or just make a fun paper work or a painting, i dont know the kind of stuff he likes.
On a serious note, I think perhaps you should just calm down a bit when he annoys you. It's alright to get annoyed and express your dislike for some of the things that he does, but moaning about it every time isn't going to solve the issue.
We beseech Thee, O Lord, let our hearts be graciously enlightened by Thy holy radiance, that we may serve Thee without fear in holiness and righteousness all the days of our life.
But yeah, I do need to learn to calm down, and chill out. But i'm so quick to act, and its so hard for me to be calm about it.
A lot of women are like it. You (to put it bluntly) bitch about us men whenever we do something which you dislike. I see it on forums, and I see it on my damn Facebook newsfeed.
The "cure" is always the same; control your emotions.
I suppose it goes without saying that a truly healthy relationship will have it's bad moments. If you go through a relationship thinking you're in heaven and that it's perfect, then when something does go wrong it's effectively "Game Over". You're not prepared, the relationship fails big-time. Couples who have a row every now-and-again, or partners who get annoyed with their BF/GF (in your case, this applies), will be much better equip for later struggles because of experience.
I don't think I've read your other threads regarding your boyfriend. For all I know the stuff you moan about is only minor issues, like (for example sake) picking his nose. Either way, it's good to keep in mind what I just said because it should help.
Ah I know your right.
Seriously I'm such a joke, i'm so horrible to him, and constantly bitch about how horrible he is to me.
"Control your emotions"
I can't control my emotions if someone paid me!
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides.
How lucky are you?! Your boyfriend's a babe, that's an A+ and then some apology present.
I don't think the idea is that you match it, that's not what an apology's about. In fact it shouldn't be about gifts at all - the focal point should be the gesture and the sentimentality.
I think it'd be fine for you to tell him verbally and straightforwardly that you really appreciate it and that his consideration has made you think twice about your recent attitude. That way he'll know that you've realised your behaviour and that you're going to amend it!
Maybe just suggest that you spend a day together and make the focus your newfound 'bitching restraint'. Or an evening together so that you can wear the dress he got. If it's personal and intimate I think it'll get your gratitude across, and I'm sure he'll appreciate the new atmosphere between you.
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STOP. ARE YOU READING THE ABOVE POST?
If not, do it. I'm beginning to get the impression that 50% of TF is populated by literate parrots/sentient mirrors.
Yeah your right, I told him that I was also sorry for being such a bitch 24/7 And today were gonna go out together.
Yeah, Ir might be nice if i wear the dress.
Thanks for the advice.
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides.
I told him that I was also sorry for being such a bitch 24/7
And that's what matters, good for you! The best present in return is remembering how you feel now if you're ever tempted back to consistently bitching.
Have a nice time w/ him! (L)
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STOP. ARE YOU READING THE ABOVE POST?
If not, do it. I'm beginning to get the impression that 50% of TF is populated by literate parrots/sentient mirrors.
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Well don't I feel like an absolute bitch!
