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my best friend's brother is 20 and he asked to teach me tennis!
can he maybe have a crush on me? he is 6 year older but is very hot/attractive.
do you think he will kiss me during tennis, or is he just being nice to offer? his sister is my best friend so i get to see him at her house a lot : )
i'm really glad to get his tennis tutoring because its a lot of money to pay otherwise! i was polite and asked to pay him for it but he said "no you are like family to us!". he is coaching me at the court near my home a minute walk away!
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So you're fourteen-years-old?
Not to be pessimistic, but I doubt that he'll kiss you - or that he even has romantic feelings for you. There's a huge age gap between you, not numerically, but in regards to maturity and development; it's unlikely that he'd find you attractive because, chances are, in his eyes you're still a child.
He's told you that you're like family to him, which is a sweet thing to say and is a good indication of how he feels about you.
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Re: my best friend's brother is 20 and he asked to teach me tennis!
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Originally Posted by bambi vision
So you're fourteen-years-old?
Not to be pessimistic, but I doubt that he'll kiss you - or that he even has romantic feelings for you. There's a huge age gap between you, not numerically, but in regards to maturity and development; it's unlikely that he'd find you attractive because, chances are, in his eyes you're still a child.
He's told you that you're like family to him, which is a sweet thing to say and is a good indication of how he feels about you.
Bamvi, yes I am. Ok but I think we have chemistry, but thats good too if he likes me as a friend, he is really friendly and very good at making me smile nonstop I wish I lived at my best friends house, I have slept there
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Originally Posted by bambi vision
So you're fourteen-years-old?
Not to be pessimistic, but I doubt that he'll kiss you - or that he even has romantic feelings for you. There's a huge age gap between you, not numerically, but in regards to maturity and development; it's unlikely that he'd find you attractive because, chances are, in his eyes you're still a child.
He's told you that you're like family to him, which is a sweet thing to say and is a good indication of how he feels about you.
^ This. Listen up, too, b/c Kerry's right. As usual...
It sounds like YOU might have the crush on him and maybe YOU'RE fantasizing about kissing him, etc. Understandable, he's a hot, older guy showing some attention. But, it's really about tennis...or let's hope so.
Fantasies and feelings are OK, just keep them inside and you'll be fine. If he should make some inappropriate move on you, tell your folks and do not go for another lesson!
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Originally Posted by Spock
^ This. Listen up, too, b/c Kerry's right. As usual...
It sounds like YOU might have the crush on him and maybe YOU'RE fantasizing about kissing him, etc. Understandable, he's a hot, older guy showing some attention. But, it's really about tennis...or let's hope so.
Fantasies and feelings are OK, just keep them inside and you'll be fine. If he should make some inappropriate move on you, tell your folks and do not go for another lesson!
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Originally Posted by MadameLily
lol sorry to burst your bubble sweets, but he won't kiss you .. reason being he's 20 your 14, he said you're like family .. sorry
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Honestly, I think he's just being a good brother-like figure (after all he did say family) and teaching you tennis.
Take it from someone who's been there, don't blow something out of proportion in your head because eventually it all comes crashing down it'll end up hurting real bad and it'll end up hurting worse when you realize it was in your head all along.
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Originally Posted by Marietta
Honestly, I think he's just being a good brother-like figure (after all he did say family) and teaching you tennis.
Take it from someone who's been there, don't blow something out of proportion in your head because eventually it all comes crashing down it'll end up hurting real bad and it'll end up hurting worse when you realize it was in your head all along.
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I don't see why you're giggling.
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I wish I lived at my best friends house, I have slept there 
