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Yes I am here again to say that I want to not date the girl that I have been with for the past month....With good reason too...

After the date after the date with the fireworks she has not called me in a week from that date...I have called her all week but no reply...I think her mom didn't pay the bill....So like on Tuesday i accidentally called her (Butt-dial) and her mom answer I had to let her go cause i was about to drive.

And so after that date I have been trying to call her but no answer...

Anyway I am always calling her and she does not call me and it seems it's one of those one-sided relationships. And I have discussed calling it off with my parents (Ultimately it's my choice but I want to get a second word on the matter) and they said "yes" but they said if that is your choice then do it.

And I feel that it's the right choice because she is the first person i've dated so I want to date other girls too....

So what do you think? What should I say to her? (IF I CAN EVEN GET A HOLD OF HER!)

Leave your comments below!

Awww....sorry this one didn't work out, I know you were really hopeful and excited.

If you're leaving messages and she's ignoring them, not returning the call, then there's nothing to be said. Just be done with it and move on.

A lot of people have difficulties ending things, so they (cowardly) just ignore the other person. It's not a good way of doing it, it can make you feel dismissed and confused, but it's info on them and what they're like, FWIW.

Typically, the 'nice' thing to do is to let the other person know that it won't work out, or you like them, but not 'that' way, etc. However, that response is hard for some people, so you sometimes don't get the courtesy of the explanation (or clarification). However, as they say, actions speak louder than words, and her actions here are saying all you need to know.

Next time, there's always a next time, hopefully with someone with a bit more maturity.

I fully understand were you going...Yes I did enjoy every thing we did together but she is just not...shall we say...."Clicking" together (i think that's a good metaphor) but anyhow...I thought about this for a couple days deciding I should do this so yea....

If she's not returning your calls, consider the relationship over, you need do nothing.

FWIW, she's a fool.....

hum... it's quite complicated.. butyes, aparently , she sdoesn't share the same interest as you do to make a possible relationship work. BUT... think this.. Did you ever think that maybe there is a reason why she didn't return your calls? i mean it can start by the parents and end up with something you said/did... I don't know if that's the case or not. I am just saying that if it had happened to me, i would have a reason not to return someone's calls... But since i am not her, i really can't help you more than this..

I am really sorry it didn't work out.. :(

At the end of the day, you gave it a try and that's something to be commended for. I can tell you were very determined to make things work with this girl.

Unfortunately however, it does look as though she might not feel the same about you as you do for her. It's painful to know but it's something we all go through and experience in life. Think of this as "preparation" for any future, potential relationships.

There's plenty more girls out there mate; you just have to find the right one. It's a long and painful experience but, supposedly, it's all worth-while in the end.

You seem like a nice guy so it won't be too long until a decent girl notices you and wants to be with you.

sorry to hear.. bt dont make the effort if shes not ! she sounds like shes jus not worth it, nd if or wen yu get hold of her just tell her straight that yu dnt wont to be with her bcoz she acts asif she dusnt giv a shit. x

She's probably with other boys, she hasn't got time for you..

Well thanks you guys and girls for your support I will keep you updated if anything happens.