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doesnt buy you ice cream ?? :O i would be total upset , cauze i love ice cream. well, i dont think its cheating , but surely its not cool! talk to him , and if he cares about only himself .. you should move on ! im pretty simple, if i dont like i step away..

If I could answer your question in one word it would be....Lust
Well I don't know your a Christian but it doesn't really matter but this word can apply to any person Christian or not
That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust... after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.....translation is that looking at a woman has already commited adultery....So in a way it is like "Cheating"....so I hope this helps you out....

YES! Ditch him, he dosn't care about you, he's cheated on you before, just be strong and let him go there's much more nicer guys out there

So even if he looks at another girl in the street, he has there for committed adultery which would be the same as "Cheating" as you put it.... Sound like temptation MORE than lust imo.

Yes but it is the same premise.

Still isn't cheating in my honest opinion.

well due to medical reasons i can't have sex for 4weeks, and i've not been well before that so my sex drive has been a lot lower than his and i know he doesn't like it, maybe this is why? i don't know what goes through his head sometimes.

and yeah i also don't understand why he pays to go on, theres plenty of places where you can get that for free!

humppph i think i'm going to have a word with him about it like some of you suggested and it might make him see how much its upset me.

Oh, I just answered your other post about him coming home and puking. Now this.

Thanks for making it easy for me here. The issue isn't so much why he does this, or what it means, but rather what you see in this bloke. He sounds very self absorbed and self focused and not in very good control of some of his major impulses. He is not very nice a lot of the time, and he doesn't seem to know how to nurture you. He has a history of cheating on you and betraying your trust. And he seems to have a drinking problem.

The real question then, is why you stay with someone like that? Surely you cannot feel so worthless yourself as to not deserve better.

You're cheating on yourself by tolerating this.