08-03-11, 09:15 AM
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Name: Sam
Age: 22
Gender: Male
Join Date: May 2010
Location: NYC
Posts: 4,084
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Re: Boys :@
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Originally Posted by Charlotte111
^ Tara calm down you tookd the chance when asking him it's oka there's plenty of guys out there I no it doesn't feel like it now but it will in time.
You should talk to a family memeber or someone you really trust about your cutting and not eating.
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Originally Posted by Kirk
Tara,
I understand you are upset, but cutting/starving yourself is not going to make you feel any better.
Firstly, I don't know how old you are but I'm going to assume you're young. Are you aware of how many relationships between 12-18 year olds actually become long-lasting, fulfilling relationships? Honestly, not a lot. As people become older, they become more mature, more emotionally stable, and as a result of this growth they're more tuned into their emotions. If this boy had said yes, chances are the relationship would not have lasted and you would have had to move on anyway.
Secondly, is he really worth damaging yourself over? You're a lovely person, and you deserve to be able to date someone who will love you for who you are. If this boy is not willing to date you, it's his loss. Find someone else who you're more compatible with.
Never, EVER hurt yourself over someone else. Please, talk to someone. You're in real need of a friend right now.
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^These. 
Cutting yourself or otherwise going into an emotional tailspin tells you two things: One, you need some professional help, tell your folks or your guidance counselor or some other trusted adult, and 2) You're not nearly ready to have a 'Boyfriend' just yet. With the ups come the downs...you have to expect that, love really is like a roller coaster. Nothing is for sure, and nothing is certain at this age.
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