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K. So lets start from the beginning. I have this guy friend, and recently I've started having feelings for him. We've been friends for about 2 years, and he's always acted differently towards me then he has other girls. We have recently became a lot closer, like bff nearly XD... Anyways, should I confess my feelings for him, and how? Any advice would be greatfully appreciated and you can have a virtual cookie :3

if you tell him you could risk losing him as a friend. but then again, you could gain a boyfriend tricky

I don't wanna be namelous,

I wanna be famous.

id go for it. worse he can say is i dont l like you that way. i doubt hed no longer be your freind.

You have to go for it, better knowing then not.

Thankyouuu guys.... I think I might tell him now as today he kept hitting me and he told me he'd get me a Valentine's gift :3

awww good. Go for it and good luck XD

UPDATE: I did it. Right before mid-terms, I told him. It turns out he loves me, but he loves me like a baby sister. He is now going out with my best friend. I've started cutting myself and starving myself. I feel like dying. :(

^ Tara calm down you tookd the chance when asking him it's oka there's plenty of guys out there I no it doesn't feel like it now but it will in time.

You should talk to a family memeber or someone you really trust about your cutting and not eating.

If you need to talk PM me

Awww don't you worry girl, I know you may of had feelings for him but you have to move on. There will be a way better guy for you out there if you are patient You seem to be intelligent and nice so you don't need to cut yourself over a guy.

We are here for you, I am here for you. Pm me if you want to talk about it okay? I will keep it confidential at all times unless you give me permission to say it to people but I normally don't say it to nobody.

Tara,

I understand you are upset, but cutting/starving yourself is not going to make you feel any better.

Firstly, I don't know how old you are but I'm going to assume you're young. Are you aware of how many relationships between 12-18 year olds actually become long-lasting, fulfilling relationships? Honestly, not a lot. As people become older, they become more mature, more emotionally stable, and as a result of this growth they're more tuned into their emotions. If this boy had said yes, chances are the relationship would not have lasted and you would have had to move on anyway.

Secondly, is he really worth damaging yourself over? You're a lovely person, and you deserve to be able to date someone who will love you for who you are. If this boy is not willing to date you, it's his loss. Find someone else who you're more compatible with.

Never, EVER hurt yourself over someone else. Please, talk to someone. You're in real need of a friend right now.