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If you have read the majority of my posts you will know there is a girl I have had feelings for. Now about two months ago I told her my feelings and she said she had feelings for me too, but that she didn't want to have a relationship at the time. I was particularly cool with it, I stopped my activities with other girls, I saw and talked with her everyday, and when I needed comforting she would, she would cheer for me when I gave presentations and she would cheer and egg me on when I am an asshole. But I have recently found that the reason she has kept me at bay, was because she has had a boyfriend for three months. She has been stringing me along, am I her back up? And on top of this one of my best friend's girlfriend(who is also my friend) has a friend who wants to be set up with me. She saw me, liked what she saw, and wants more, what should I do?

Don't let her string you a long anymore, tell her straight up that you want more and if she doesn't want to leave her bf then say alright then I'm going to date. Don't wait for her, date and live your life.

What i would do is, do what you want.

I am amazed at how similar our situations are, it's ironic funny.
I love that kinda funny even as i sit here all sad.
What ever i like that kinda dark humor


ANYWAYS!

Because you aren't obliged to be elusive or anything, move on. Keep her as a friend and all. Don't be a jerk about it. Just go doing what ever you where doing before meeting her. GO be yourself.

This is EXACTLY what I'm doing, sadly for me I'm not a player and don't want to get laid or anything. So peace my friend.

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

Thanks hallace our situations are similar, but I have never seen her boyfriend and she has seen evidence of previous girls with me. She also knows that I had cut out sex for a while, but my friend has a girl lined up for me and not sure if I should take it.

Hey i saw her boyfriend before she told me about him.
The main difference was he never said anything in english and she was HAPPY around him, like a lot. Compared to the pure awkwardness of me and her.

I would take it, if she brings it up somehow. Just tell her its a fling or something. IDK i have no experience with anything like this.

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

I probably will take up my friend on her offer to set me up, after all the girl she has also just wants a fling, might as well enjoy myself and have a fling, and I know I can satisfy her friend.

Perhaps she really does like you but likes her boyfriend as well. Anyway, treat her just like any other friend and if she has a boyfriend then there is no reason you can't go out with another girl. Don't worry about this girl!

I will take my friend up on the offer then and have her set me up.

You should still talk to her, but see other people. because if she ends up not with him then you will have a good relationship with her and that will become a good love relationship. But you should be open minded to other girls because she seems like she doesnt know who/what she wants.

Yeah, but what happens if I am with this other girl and she wants to be with me and I don't think it would be so easy to throw the other girl away, even though she is just looking for someone to have "fun" with.