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Cougar88 · 14-02-11, 09:09 AM

if u think sex was possible i would talk to her. Ask her if u did and what she thinks about it.if she gives u good vibes tell her rlly how u feel. If she says it was a mistake. I dont like u that way then obv move on.

kingsandqueens · 14-02-11, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by markus209

It's possible that she was turning you down gently, but like has been said it's also likely that she just thought it was a forwarded message and therefore you werent actually asking her to be your valentine. Her response sounds like she might be thinking that.

I think your best to ask her and speak to her, as at the sounds of things you two have stuff you need to talk over anyway.

Good luck

Well i dont know if she needs to talk to me about anything but i surely need to talk to her about a few things but also i'm a bit scared of just asking her out as im not a really confident person and would probably just clam up

kingsandqueens · 14-02-11, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Cougar88

if u think sex was possible i would talk to her. Ask her if u did and what she thinks about it.if she gives u good vibes tell her rlly how u feel. If she says it was a mistake. I dont like u that way then obv move on.

like i just sad i would like to ask her but the fort of doing so it scares me coz im not confident and at the moment i got that little bit of hope so if i ask her and then its not good news i have nothing

Cougar88 · 14-02-11, 09:31 AM

its better to know then to not ask and wonder. U would rather be single and hope to be with a girl who has no desire to be with u??? I would rather move on to a girl who liked me!

And ur too shy to talk to her but u may have had intimate sex with her? Ok that makes no sense!

kingsandqueens · 14-02-11, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Cougar88

its better to know then to not ask and wonder. U would rather be single and hope to be with a girl who has no desire to be with u??? I would rather move on to a girl who liked me!

And ur too shy to talk to her but u may have had intimate sex with her? Ok that makes no sense!

when you put it like that your right i should ask her and intimate sex no if we did have sex it was drunken sex and when i have a few drinks im not that shy

Cougar88 · 14-02-11, 09:52 AM

lol yh i said intimate sex to make my point lol

but yh i think u get my point ... Hey maybe get drunk and maybe u will get laid again lol (nah bad idea haha especially if u cant even remember the sex lol)

actually thats rlly sad .. U may have had sex with the girl of ur dreams and u dont even remember it or if it even happened?!?! O.o

kingsandqueens · 14-02-11, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Cougar88

lol yh i said intimate sex to make my point lol

but yh i think u get my point ... Hey maybe get drunk and maybe u will get laid again lol (nah bad idea haha especially if u cant even remember the sex lol)

actually thats rlly sad .. U may have had sex with the girl of ur dreams and u dont even remember it or if it even happened?!?! O.o

i know its like never happened before and its not just sad but stupid i should probably not drink as much if im with girls as i always seem to wake up with somone and regret it coz i dont actually like them in a passionate way

Cougar88 · 14-02-11, 10:12 AM

yh idk .. Maybe u have a drinking problem idk tho

atleast u know girls like u when ur not so shy .. Just in case ur girl u like doesnt like u

kingsandqueens · 14-02-11, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Cougar88

yh idk .. Maybe u have a drinking problem idk tho

atleast u know girls like u when ur not so shy .. Just in case ur girl u like doesnt like u

yh right i undrstand girls like confidants but no i wouldnt say i have a drinking problem as i dont drink alot but when i do drink i dont know when to stop thats my problem but hey thats a diffrent subject and thanks for all the advise ill be sure to let you all know the out come of my question as soon as i ask her and get a response