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Preston Parsons · 15-02-11, 10:47 AM

Hello,

i was messed in realtionship, first when i was year 7 - 9 i got my girlfriend but now we ended up then year 10 the one of boy asking me out and i dont mind.. and we been together like 2 half years but now we ended up cus he's cheated on me.. and lying to me and he trying to make my self harm.

Which one you think i could be St8 or bi or gay?

Thank

bree_loves_you · 15-02-11, 10:57 AM

well...

your sexuality cant be chosen! and you shouldnt label yourself either.

your sexuality is who you are, not what you choose to be.

so to answer your question- whatever you feel you are. are you atracted to lads, girls, both?

Preston Parsons · 15-02-11, 10:58 AM

Well both really. x

bree_loves_you · 15-02-11, 10:59 AM

i would say you were bi then most likely.

but dont label yourself or limit yourself!!

Preston Parsons · 15-02-11, 11:09 AM

ok but im worried that if i get new girlfriend then she dont know that im bi tho

.. or get new boyfriend then he dont know that im bi they both might dumped me when they found out =/

bree_loves_you · 15-02-11, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Preston Parsons

ok but im worried that if i get new girlfriend then she dont know that im bi tho

.. or get new boyfriend then he dont know that im bi they both might dumped me when they found out =/

they dont really have to know unless it gets serious. and if they dont except it then they arent worth your time

Preston Parsons · 15-02-11, 11:12 AM

oh okay, thank.

AccessDenied · 16-02-11, 03:38 PM

Hi Preston.

I’ve never needed to label my sexual orientation, never felt any pressure to do so. So I ask, is it really that important to have a label? I don't mean to sound mean if that did, but why not just enjoy who you like and not worry about all the label stuff. In my opinion, all that is really important is finding the person you want to be with. It doesn't really matter if you are gay, straight, bi sexual, as long as you and your partner are happy.

Your sexuality is yours. Don't allow anyone else to define it for you.

It is, however, very normal to be curious about labels and such. Just remember a label doesn't define you. You do.

Enjoy exploring sexuality. Enjoy making good, solid relationships starting out getting to know your friends. Nurture friendships, lovers and maybe more. You don't want to restrict your views and selections.

Good luck and have fun.