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so i have an x boyfriend he broke up with me a year ago..for a reason i do not know when he broke up with me i was really hurt i just wanted him to get out of my face i didint want to talk to him anymore so thats why i didint ask why he broke up with me we broke up on 1-4-10 and ever since dat day we didint talk until this new year 2011.i really really loved him and i still do...but i try not to show it while im around him.i flirt with him here and there but not all the time.i sit next to him in 3rd period and he kinda tries to flirt with me but im not sure if he actually still has feelings for me or if hes just a player.we sometimes talk about when we were going out and wen we do talk about those times he gets all sad.and hes always looking into my eyes.do yew guys think he still has feeling for me??thanxz for readin

idk why the f u didnt ask him why he broke up with u. Thats just weird imo. Im sure he "has feelings" for u. I have feelings for all my exes. Good feelings for the ones i broke up mutually with. Horrible feelings for the bitch losers.

But if he flirts with u then i would say yh he still likes u or he thinks so little of u that he doesnt care that he hurt u once and doesnt care that he is still playing with ur emotions.

Its gonna be difficult for us to know imo unless u give us more info. Why dont u just talkt to him and get a bunch of answers from him finally. Thats my advice. Good luck.

It's a tough one, like Spencer says he'll have feelings for you one way or the other, and if he's flirting with you it sounds like it could be positive.

You did say though you thought he might be a player? Do you have any basis for that? Is it the sort of thing he has done in the past? In regards to the flirting aswell normally you would take that as a sign he does like you, but take into account how he acts around all his female friends. If you are the only one he flirts with then thats obviously means more than if he generally acts the same way around alot of girls.

You did break up for a reason, and it's always worth taking that into account before getting back with an ex. Unfortunately you dont know what that reason is as you never asked. It may be a bit awkward asking now as it was so long ago that you broke up, but if you were to get back together I think it's important you find out before hand why you broke up in the first place. Without knowing the reason for your break up aswell I would imagine it would be very difficult to get over him, with not having any sort of closure, so if you find you are having a hard time getting over him and have feelings towards him that hes not reciprocating it may be worth talking to him about the break up so at least you know why.

Good luck

he might...try talking to him and see why he broke up with u in the first place and go from there

Win^.

It's always a good idea to respond based on thought than emotion, even though it;s often harder to do so. So, when someone does something that is unexpected or unusual or causes distress, use that distress as a signal to ASK them what's going on. This is always a good idea, but especially with people you have an emotional investment with.

Now, since you;re still struggling with what happened and your lack of info why it occurred, you might regroup and ask him calmly what went on and see what he says. at the very least, you';ll have valuable info that you might use in other relationships, and it will give you some practice dealing directly with issues that distress you.