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I think it's selfish of you not to be happy for her having found more friends.

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I think taking her to the office means something different for you than her.

For her, it is a pain and a reminder of her diabetes (and as an FYI, she would be checking her blood sugar level, not her BP), something that's not too much fun.... a necessity brought about by a physical condition that requires close monitoring. Who she chooses...or who volunteers..probably .isn't so much a reflection of her feelings about that person..it's a chore, not a fun thing.

For you, it sounds like her asking you to accompany her..or your volunteering for it...represented a way you could take care of her in some way, and maybe it made you feel special. Understandable.

However, b/c you and she view this time together differently, there are different feelings about it. Remember, for her it;s a chore, a responsibility and an obligation. For you, it's emotional. If you're still friends, if you still do FUN stuff together, if she still likes you, then her accompaniment to the nurses office probably isn't at all about popularity or feelings about the person.

Reinforce the 'specialness' you like with her doing fun things for both of you, not stuff concerning her diabetes.

look if yew dont have something good too say den dont say it alright!

Seeing as the original post has been edited and there is no longer a question I'm going to go ahead and close the thread.

If anyone has a problem with me closing the thread please PM me.

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