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Hello! It's me... again...
I would like to share you my problem with... boys.
So , I have never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 years old... I'm very stressed out and sad about it... Because guys are not interested in me and It hurts me...
All my '' friends '' have or had at least a boyfriend... I don't want a boyfriend just to look like my friends but I really need love and love a boy who could share everything with me... So, have you got advice? Where can I meet more guys? How old are you meeting your first boyfriend? Tell me about that .

Boyfreinds aren't all their cracked up to be trust me

You only 16 there's no need to rush there's someone out there for everyone you just have to find him and you have plenty of time to do so

Some girls may have had three or four boyfreinds before they were 16 and they went through heartache and stress with them.


Just enjoy being single ! and wait for yourguy to come along it's most often that when you stop looking there he is


Hope I helped

imo boys are better off out your life but yeah..

Like i said in the other thread, join a club and meet peopple there and ask them to hang outside the club because it will show that your interested in been friends

Friends first don't go nose diving into a relationship.

It's seriously so good when you're actually with someone, but like just wait until it comes along, don't force it :')

You could look online, that's probably your best option :')

Looking online isn't the best option, a person behind a picture is not a perfect match.

If she's had no luck with people in real life it could be, you don't know how perfect something to turn out to be unexpectedly.

Thank you for your responses... I know that I'm young and I have time but you know , the BEST relationships are when you are a teenager and I seriously want to have a boyfriend... It's normal when you're 16 years old... and your friends always talk about love and always in the street you can see all the couples... It makes me sad , really...

Hey, at least you aren't ugly. That's why I've never dated. And I'm 16 like you. Just be grateful that you have friends and such, you don't need a boyfriend.

Honestly Boyfriends arent everything. Some people dont find their first love until they are in their 20s or even 30s. Being in a relationship takes alot of commitment. And you have to be ready for it. My boyfriend an I have been together for 4 years and thats and there have been lots of ups and downs in our relationship but since we are committed to each other we have managed to stay positive through it all. Yes it can be hard to wait but just enjoy your single years and wait for that special someone if none are interested in you right now then they arent the ones for you. Even though it is hard it will be worth it in the end.

October 5th,2007
Love you Babe

I don't understand why young girls' lives seem to revolve around having a boyfriend.
Statistically speaking, relationships are your age don't last long anyway.

Also, is "friends" in quotations simply because you're upset that they've had a significant other and you haven't?
You come across as very desperate and "on the prowl" if you will.
That sort of attitude will make 95% of guys you could potentially be interested in you, run the other way as fast as they can.
Just FYI.

Your best bet is to stop worrying about it and eventually it will happen.

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