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okay so, theres this girl, who likes me.. and um our school is grade 11 and 12, and 2 different schools which are 9 and 10 come to this school.. now this girl, is the prettiest girl from school 2 (im from school 1) and like the problem is that i cant seem to like anyone last time i was really into this girl and it ended up pretty bad so i dunno but heres the problem now, we hangout and wat not, talk on msn and stuff but whenever we do so its always like talking about basketball, music.. she never really opens up to anything or something that i know of her, well i guess im just looking for a way to get her to open up a bit for me and maybe i get to know her better and start liking her, cuz i dont wanna let her go, shes like the prettiest chick and guys always asking her for lunches and stuff like that

but yeah, anyway.. this'd be my first relationship, if i got in one, and her 2nd i think? im not sure.. (she never talks about this stuff) so i just want her to get to open up more.. how do i do that?

Chill (cool name, btw)...the way you do this is in person. Use MSN to make some time to meet and do something IRL. People tend to warm up more in person when you have their complete undivided attention w/o distractions or 'space'.

IM is a funny thing...it connects you..but at a distance, it's impersonal even though it's personal...you really don't actually 'connect', so it's hard to get her to open up. She might be doing other things..multi tasking...so it's not conducive to personal, involved chats.

Jump on IM, say hello, and try to male a plan to meet.

Talk to her and try an meet up. And when you have done that see if you can open her up. She could be shy or she could have a problem that she needs to talk about but she doesnt know what to do. and you should be the one there for her!(: xx

thankss guyss