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So my my boyfriend and i have been going out for like 2 mounths now, and yesterday his "ex" girlfriend friends me on facebook, and then has the nerve to tell me that i need to stop talking with the futer father of her babey. she is 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend didn't tell me. so now i don't know if i should keep him or dump him???

well yea i do but, idk i need help!!!!!

If you love him, you should be able to get through this and keep going in your relationship.
And the ex has no right to tell you whoo you can an cannot talk too.
So just go for it(: xx

What do i do about his child and all. i kind of feel akward now?

you should still let him be a father to his son but dont let the ex get to youu x

If your bf didn't tell you he got someone pregnant, that's a huge problem.

TALK TO HIM

Definitely talk to him. And tell his ex to get a paternity test if she hasn't already and see if it really is his child.

Wait.

Dump HER, not him. Until he tells you, it's idle (and vicious) gossip. She's his ex, after all. What were you thinking befriending her, even on FB?

Forget it..until you have some proof it's meaningless, mean spirited, back stabbing, vindictive nonsense,

Before you make any sudden or serious moves, you need to validate that she's pregnant first. She may be lying to you to break the two of you apart. Bitch move, but them she probably is a bitch in the first place. Don't do something you regret!

Honey, remove her off your friends list if not already done, talk to your boyfriend to get a better understanding of the situation. If the child is most definitely his, let him be able to raise it, and you can still be with him. Just don't listen to his ex, unless she is trying to help you and not hurt you, but by the way she is talking to you, she is just trying to make you upset.

Maybe theres a way you can move forward with this, but God help me if my boyfriend didnt tell me his ex girlfriend was pregant, and you said you and your boyfriend have only been going out for 2 months? no one else caught that? and the girl is 9 weeks pregnant? so right before he got with you he was with this girl and got her pregnant. Its not like you guys have been going out forever and maybe youre in love with him after 2 months who am i to say anything, but after only 2 months youre already having to deal with drama like this? this isnt a little drama either, this is a big situation. id get out of there as quick as i could but thats me. only you can tell you what to do or how to feel. but no matter what id be having a huge talk with my boyfriend about not telling me about this girl and bring a new LIFE into this world. and about this girl, I would say tell her to fuck off its none of her business who your boyfriend is with but now that she is going to be the mother of his child she kind of does have a say, not in who hes seeing or talking to but about him., and if you think about it in her perspective you cant blame her for being mad or having an attitude, if an ex boyfriend got me pregnant and than a week later got a new girlfriend youre damn right id be pissed too, so nicely id tell her to leave you out of this situation youre with him and theres really nothing she can do about it but be considerate of how she feels also. lmao. so my advice is that, thats way too much drama for a 2 month relationship, id be out.