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Okay heres the thing...
I am 15 and havent had a boyfriend for over a year and a half if not more??
How and where do i meet new guys??
How do i get them to be interested in me??
andd whhyy am i alone and my best friend gets more boyfriends than me and i mean loads!,
she has a new one every week,
we are both pretty and there isnt much difference??
Any help?? xx
(:

This sounds like you don't really want a boyfriend; it sounds like you are trying to compete with your friend and that you just want the attention. But I could be wrong...

IMO, 15 is too young to be in a relationship. Sure, it happens all of the time, but how often do those relationships work out after highschool? Not very often. I say enjoy the time alone now, because there's plenty of time to fall in love later in life.

Thanks for the post and im not competeing with my friend she is horrible for what she does to guys\: xx

I'm 15 too, turning 16 in May. I've never really had a legit boyfriend, and I'm okay with that because I know I haven't found the right guy. Why would your friend want a new boyfriend every week? Haha, I think thats stupid, to be blunt. Is there even a point to calling him a boyfriend.. seems like she'd barely know them.

If I were you, I wouldn't search for boyfriends. Don't you want a relationship to last? Or rather at least be able to call it a REAL relationship. Just be yourself, be friends with everyone, and TRUST ME, a guy will start to like you for who you truly are. Remember its the quality of the relationship, not the amount of them.

Good luck though!

Gone like a dream that I have just awoken from

Fading away, just out of reach

And we are here, but I already miss you

even as you're lying next to me

im not suggesting you do this but does she put out? she might be getting guys because she does ... but if that is the reason they wont be nice guys anyway x .... there is no point in rushing these things eventually the right guy will come along . goodluck x

Sorry to sound harsh, but why be her friend then?

Where I came from, the place to meet new boys was at a church youth club in town. Or, look out for outdoor activities like hikes, where also you could meet boys. I joined a cycling club which in spring through to autumn gave me great fun. Have a look in your local paper.

Do your parents belong to health club? Like gym? Your being under 16 might mean reduced membership costs, and once there you could ask a guy for help with say, a jogging machine or something.

I think you should stop trying to find a boyfriend, and just wait until you find someone you really like?

go to the place where alot of people from school hang out at on fridays and weekends.
if yew are a shy person maybe thats why yew dont have a boyfriend because guys dont really like girls that are shy they like girls that are outgoing maybe your friend is just a really big flirt n guys think she is easy thats probably why they ask her out alot.im sorry i dont mean to offend your friend.if she has a boyfriend every week guys arent gonna take her serious they are just gonna wanna play with her.but maybe you should try to flirt with some guys but dont flirt too much because ur gonna make it obvious that yew want him!`