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I have a pretty strong infatuation with this girl I know. We had a class together a year ago. She's still in high school, and now I am in college.

I got her number back in high school and we talked a bit, but it never went anywhere because I had a gf at the time...

Now I started texting her again after seeing her at a soccer game at the High school. She seemed interested the first day. Texted me for a good 4 hours straight and stayed up really late to talk. Said she'd text me the next day and never did... We've texted a few times since then, but she'll randomly just stop talking to me.

She also said that she doesn't think it would be weird if we hung out but she doesn't want to make my girlfriend mad.

All signs point to not interested but I don't want to take that as an answer... I still have a gf, but we're breaking up within the next few days. Could that be a game changer or do you think I should just give up on her?


And her texts have content to them... They aren't just replying to whatever I said, she asks questions back, and even controls the conversation occasionally... So she is showing a few different signs.

Yes.

It ain't over till it's over, you aren't available until you're officially broken up, so until that happens, you'd fall into the scoundrel category by pursuing this.

Break up first, then pursue this.

That's the wise Spock right there.