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I'm done with high school dating for now. I'm sick of situations where a lot of the relationships I'm in, they seem so nice and shit at first, and then break up with you weeks-months later and you can't tell what the hell is going on in their mind. They start acting like whores and get all bitchy when you didn't even do anything. What the hell am I missing?

One more thing : Sorry If this post seems really angry Needed to get it out lol.

I know exactly how you are feeling dude. But my friends are helping me get through it.

Well, as you're discovering very few people seem to be in their right minds. And even less as a teenager. Actually, I think there's an inverse relationship btw'n mindfulness (or sanity!) and age.

Lower your expectations and it won't be quite the shock, realize nothing right now will last forever...it's all just practice and experience..and you'll be OK.

Very few people in their early-teenage years.

Hi Jimee, welcome to our forum. I hope you will return and enjoy yourself here. There are good people who care.

My past has seen enough relationships to last an average person a long, long time. And I have come to slow down after finding my soulmate, someone very special and far different from those I once knew. Highschool was four years ago, and it feels like a very long four years...

Last year I spent as a single person, unattached and quite content in myself. It was a forced intention to be my own person for as long as I wanted, and this time without the sort of relationships you are referring to, really helped me settle into myself and find the real me.

Peer pressure, parties and the like do nothing for one's esteem as they hop between beds, swapping partners as if there is no tomorrow. I suggest you forget about those loonies who wish for having constant sexual gratification - and do your own thing, be your own person.

Nevermind what the mindless herd think or comment, they know nothing. They may well act totally bonkers, but you will be finding yourself again, taking time to discover the real you. If you have but one close friend who can be your buddy through the hard times, then you will fine. Walk the lonely road for a while just as I did, for along the way you will discover real people with real feelings. People who care, ones who will gladly walk the extra mile; and even carry you.

It is good to rant. Be angry - let it all out. Just don't bang the door too hard. Because when I raged off two years ago, thought I'd fractured me knuckles.

umm ouch!

anyway i thought the same thing, at first. then i changed my mind. after getting cheated on, again, i am so back to what i said.

for now at least.