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Is it wrong that I have like a major crush on my sisters boyfriend?If so how do I ignore my feelings.
This is how it all started we met the all three of us hung out and ate ice-cream after that we went to the park and sat on the swings he sat in the middle swing between me and my sister. We were luaghing because on one of the slide's there was a huge ***** drawn on the side of it. My sister didn't see it and was wondering why where luaghing and said "Why are you guys giggling over there?Is that why you wanted to sit next her huh?Cause you wanted to flirt with her?". And her boyfriend turned red and started luaghing like really hard and said "Yeah your right we were so flirting, i forgot to tell you me and your little sister have a 'thing' going on I hope your not jealous.". I started luaghing and played along with him...but like the more and more all three of us hang out the more and more we've been playing around. Like when I see him and when he laughs, and smiles it makes my heart beat sooo fast. I just can't ignore it, and when we joke around like for ex/ my sister told him to take a picture with him and he was like no i don't like picture's and then i budded in there convo and was like thats not what you said last night when I was texting you, my sister was pretending to get mad and like stopped cuddling him and he was like "damn Anna I told you not to talk about our text messages!" and then like when he was reading something in spanish I told him to go slower and sexier. And he did it and my sister started luaghing. Everything used to be fun and just joking around but recently whenever we look at each other when my sister's not looking I can't stop to take my eyes off of him and when I do that he blushes and fake coughs. I even have dreams about him, and daydream about having our first kiss. I feel like a bitch for being attracted to him...but at the same time my sister still hangs out with her ex boyfriend behind his back. And he doesn't know, he loves her sooo much too. It's just not fair to me though its like let me have em if you don't want em! He's the best boyfriend in the world, he buys her like really expensive stuff, he even sings to her, and writes cute messages on her wall everyday like
"your the most beautifulest girl in the world" and he even wrote her poem one time 30 pepole liked it.

How can i stop myself from liking him!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!??!?! If I don't stop soon I'll end up telling him how I feel and things will be awkward.

You can't stop yourself from liking him, although you can stop yourself from making a move on him. If you did make a move it will ruin you and your sister's relationship. And you say this boy is in love with your sister, he might resent you for admitting your feelings to him, then you would not of lost a sister but a good friend too. Is all this crushing worth loosing two close people?

You can try spending less time with this boy so that your feelings will simmer down. Stop flirting with this boy and just be friendly if he does get flirty change the subject.

I agree with Sarah.
You can't help your feelings, however you have to remember that blood is thicker than water.
Odds are that this boy will not be the last one in your sisters life OR YOURS. Why ruin a close relationship with either one of them simply for a crush that will pass with time?

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