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So, this girl I like is in the same class with me. However, we don't talk too much.
Thing is, I have her Yahoo ID and her Facebook. Yet everytime I wanna talk with her on Yahoo she doesn't say anything at all. It happened twice already(well, the first time she stated she can't right now, but the second time she didn't say anything at all in 3 hours.). What is weird is that at school she's acting a bit friendly, saying hi and other nice stuff, but we're not having that much of a convo...

I'm not that kind of guy to ask her to lunch (well, I don't have where to ask her) and asking her out would be out of question since first of all I wanna have a discussion with her.

Is she trying to say no, is she trying to play mind games, or... What does she want?

From what you know of her, is she a shy or out-going type of person?

If it's the former, it's possible she's just hesitant to have a full conversation with you due to her shyness, and is reluctant to engage in conversation on Yahoo for the same reason. If it's the latter, either she is ignoring you (IE. Trying to say No), or she has genuinely been busy.

I don't believe you should give up hope just yet. I would keep trying to engage in conversation with her. It does look as if you're going to have to take the lead in this situation though, so when the opportunity presents itself I recommend having a more in-depth conversation with her, rather than just a standard "Hello". Seeing as how you've only tried to contact her twice on Yahoo, you've not got much to go by.

Best of luck mate!

Well, is it a issue that at the last chat I became a bit angry and told her that if she doesn't want to talk, to say it?...

Erm...possibly. It really depends on how you said it. Did she respond? If so, how?

I couldn't give you solid advice on that bit I'm afraid. I quite often ask the girls I speak to if they're reluctant to chat because I'm boring, weird and/or rude...

Internet, meh.

How people behave online isn't necessarily indicative how what they'd do IRL..there are too many unaccounted variables: Distractions, multi tasking, the impersonal nature of it..heck, she could even have been away from her PC for those 3 hrs, who knows? it;s easy to personalize what happens (or doesn't happen), simply b/c you can't account for all those other unseen variables.

So, use the net to make contact and set something up IRL ASAP. The 'net is really just another form of communication..it;s not a substitute for actual interpersonal contact. People often make that mistake, and that's where they (and now you!) get yourself into trouble. So, get on, say hi, and set something up.