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Hi everyone,

I have a "different" situation with a girl, and am trying to figure out what to do. I have her in two of my classes, in one, she sits two seats in front of me, and in the other, she sits right next to me. We haven't talked much, but we do once in a while. She knows that I used to like her (I think she things that I got over her, etc).

Here's a convo we had throught Facebook Messaging:


(Btw, the line I underlined in orange is something I'm wondering about. Should I have said it? I felt as if she would think, "why is he telling me that?", so I tried to play it off by saying what I said, but now it just looks strange to me when I read it over.


So my question is, what should should I say/do next (especially in regards to replying to her last sent message)? We have school on Monday (we're seniors in high school).

Girls are AMAZING at playing off stuff.

The fact she added onto the subject is good.
She probably knows you are uneasy, adding onto the topic like that "you don't care"



You shouldn't make a big deal out of it, since its not really a big deal anyways. Just ask her about what ever she said in the last message and be chill and have a conversation without having any underlying motives or anything. Just talk.

Girls know EVERYTHING, so just go on with it.

In your situation just talk and have no underlying motives, just talk. This should be easy since you are online and everything. Do the same if you start talking to her in real life.


Trust me, doing this works great with girls you want to know. This situation isn't actually very different.

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

Ahh, thank you very much.