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My previous posts have been about the girl I care about, but she found out last week that I was seeing someone just because I couldn't be with her and she thought if I really cared for her than I wouldn't have used an other girl for sex. I told her it was just so I could make it through the night, because she was always on my mind making me miserable because I couldn't be with her.

So on Saturday she went to the hospital and it was found that she had appendicitus and she needed surgery. I barely found out today and her friend texted her to tell me where she was. I am actually pretty sure she does not actually even want to talk to me, and she now thinks of me as a drunk because the only way I can over come my insomnia is to drink until I pass out.

I am just wondering if it is alright to visit a girl, who is mad at me, in the hospital, provided that we don't actually know each other all that well? Also school is almost over and I won't see her for months unless we plan to, so should I also feel I should confront her one last time about us, because I don't want to iss our last chance.

You can go see her I guess.. Personally, If you slept or got with a chick just because you were miserable over me or whatever, Id be pissed and not think much of you or want you. Running to another girl for sex, isn't the answer.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I know it was wrong, but I was drunk then too, either I can sleep and function is society the next day, or I can be irratable and on the edge of punching people in the face, angry, unfun, and tired. I also am a rare case where my hangovers aren't bad at all, and I can hide them extremely easily.

That is beside the point, I do agree with you, I don't think she would be happy to see me, but I want to see her. There was a card goin around in school today for her and I wrote something, but not something that obviously showed my feelings (other people don't know that the kid in the leather jacket has been brought to his knees by the little farm girl) and I signed it. I don't think that will help either.

Well it does sound like you really care, so i guess give it a try. don't expect much though

And definitely straighten up, even if you're drunk and for the reasons you get drunk it's unacceptable. You need to go to a doctor for your insomia, not a bottle of alcohol.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

First, Eli..I have to clear something up, b/c it might make a difference. You said earlier that you were a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic. Is that true? And who/how was that diagnosed?

While I'm waiting on that, the answer to your q is that if you don't have the kind of relationship that would grant you immediate access, then the proper thing to do is call her in advance and ask her if she's up for a visit form you.

With what was said above, make sure you can get in to see her, but if you can without any paperwork or relation to her id go without calling.. It would really show you care.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

My mom is the kind of woman who worries, and when her son started to act strange she asked that I see a doctor. I saw all kinds of doctors and I am physically in perfect health, but on a mental survey I was found to be "abnormal" I was sent to a specialist, physciatrist in Modesto, CA. I was diagnosed as a paranoid schitzophrenic, because of my tendency to make connections where there are none, my fear of a force that governs all, my fear of authority, my hallucinations, and insomnia are all factors that led her to diagnose me as a paranoid schitzophrenic.

You could perhaps go and visit her, but I'm not sure how well she would react.
She may be tired, sore and wanting to rest - instead of having extra drama being brought upon her.

Your best bet, may be texting her friend to see if she is actually wanting visitors - and how they think she'd react if you showed up? Her friends probably know the answer better than us.

But on another note - it would show that you care if you did show up just briefly to check on her and wish her well.

Good Luck (=

I have not been able to visit, but we have been texting the past two days, not today something came up. She doesn't seem angry anymore and will probably be in school next week and I can confront her face to face.

So this morning I woke up in the same room with a girl I don't know, but I am glad to say we didn't do anything. She said that she wanted to, but that in my drunken state I kept rambling on how I cared for another. So she let me sleep and then slept herself. I took her home and just got back h