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Hello
I am 15 years old, live in England and I need some advice.
There is this girl [does not go my school] but goes to my monday night acting classes, I have known her for 2 years and I really like her.
We have always got on well even in the times when she has been with people but I have always been concerned that she just wants to be friends.
I have never been quite up to asking her out untill 3 weeks ago and I was still only able to do it over the phone, I did it on a saturday. She recently broke up with her BF [I know him, not exactly mates but hes at my school and in all fairness hes a knob and I dont blame her for dumping him] and her reply was "sorry, I am not over Alex quite yet"
I really like her and want to be with her, she likes me aswell, I make her laugh and we're always talking but I just feel slightly awkward about asking this one girl for some reaosn, and also there are always others aorund when I see her.
Any advice guys?
Just be with her, enjoy her friendship and let things develop without necessarily calling it something. if it's meant to be, it will. Prematurely labeling it doesn't do much of anything to better assure the outcome.
Just hang out more, talk more, when she's ready she'll give you signs. And if you tell yourself to just be patient, you can be. If you let yourself believe it's too overpowering, it will be. Mind over matter.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Anyway, I decided not to take your advice, not on purpose, but we were talking on the phone as we often do and I just suddenly had to let it all out. I told you how much I loved her, how I felt about her and how long I have wanted her. She told me I was'nt her type but that she loves me to the moon and back, she said I was cheeky, funny and had a heart of gold and that I did the right thing telling her, she sees me more as a brother than a lover. I thought I would be heart broken, I am upset at the moment but I feel happy I finally let it out and told her just incase she felt the same, we see eachother on Monday and we'll discuss it more then before we continue to be good friends
Today's Toppers
So theres this girl...
