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Basically 7 years ago I went to school with this girl and I liked her then. but I had to move schools. Now 17 years later I am 16, she is 15, and like her again. we are facebook friends, I don't know why i like her considering the only things I know about her is what her facebook profile says. anyway I know it sounds stupid but I can't get this girl of my mind. I have tried to get over her but I can't. and when I asked my friend how I tell if she has a bf (I am pretty sure she doesn't), he asked what her first name was. i told him and the stupid idiot added her as a friend. he said If i didnt talk to her at that moment he would tell her I like her. since I wasnt ready, and I didnt know how to start up a conversation I just said hey did my friend by any chance add you?. she said yueah and I apologised about him, and told her that he had a bet with his mate to get 500 friends. I think that scared her off because a few weeks later I said hey, it's been a while, how have you been. I got no reply. I was just hoping it was a glitch in fb chat, because it is always screwy, but I tried a few more times over the next month with still no reply.

Should I keep trying to talk to her because I don't think i will get over her that easy (The last girl I liked, wasnt on my mind anywher near as much as this girl, yet it took me three years to get over her)?
Thanks

It's a difficult situation because it's been so long since you last properly saw her.. she may be a bit scared because she hasn't seen you and doesn't know what you are like. I think if she's not replying then there's a big hint there and I'm sorry to say but she probably doesn't feel the same way as you do.. You can try again but if she just ignores you, all you can do is try to move on. Normally the advice to this type of situation I'd give is to try and get to know her and become friends with her which you're doing already and isn't working.

If you've only seen her FB profile and not met her in real for ages she might be different sometimes what people write online isn't necessarily true.

Move on dude.. she just doesn't seem interested in becoming friends let alone your girlfriend.

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