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Adam Copeland aka Edge (wwe) is the only bad boy i've ever liked. I prefer my men sweet and sensitive .....or just Aaron

so what youre saying is, i spend the next 10 years alone until some eavily damaged goods decides she wants to marry me, not because she loves me or is attracted to me or is over bad boys, but because she feels she should settle down, or wants financial security (my money) or someone to look after her kids

and im meant to be okay with that because i should be so honoured that a girl actually wnts to have sex with me?

tell me how thats different from just straight up paying girls like i do now? at least they dont fuck with my emotions and theyre nice to me

Play the game dude play the game, there's billions of players only looking to PLAY. really the only way to lose is to not play the game until you can win in one hand.


I hope that isn't to complected to understand, there just something very wrong about me saying it straight up.

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

I'd say you'd limit your chances with girls to practically 0% if you refer to ones with a past as "heavily damaged goods". Unfortunately this is how the world works. Girls tend to find "bad boys" more attractive in their teens/early adulthood, but then gravitate towards the more stable, nicer men as they get older. It's genetics. I find it a little pathetic myself, but there is literally nothing you can do to change this fact.

I'm not saying you should end up dating some emotionally unstable ex-whore, but you really will garner a lot of interest once women reach their late 30's, and then you can "take your pick". I'm sure out of the many who will be interested in you, there will be at 'least one who isn't interested in financial security etc - also, simple rule for a woman who has kids; don't date them if you don't want to look after someone else's kids. There are plenty of younger women who are into nice guys, it's just that they're hard to come by.

I know how you feel. No girl's interested in me now, but frankly I'm not all too bothered as I can't be fucked with the drama and stupidity most young girls bring. If a lass comes along later in my life with genuine feelings for me, doesn't have a stupid past and I believe she wants to be with me for who I am...then great. If not, oh well.

Like the old saying goes; Nice guys finish last.

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Also, stop paying girls for sex. That is not going to work in your favour when looking for a partner.

so its fine for women to get their jollies with a bad boy and i cant judge them, but i cant have any fun with a bad girl just because i pay?

It's the fact you're paying that's the problem. If you found a bad girl from a pub, club etc then it would be somewhat more acceptable due to society's views on one-night stands. Paying gives off the impression that you're desperate and think of women as objects rather than human-beings. I think you're looking into this a bit too much though - I know how you feel, but at the end of the day you have to take steps to finding a woman who will love you for who you are.

I'd like women to understand how much they hurt us, but I very much doubt that's ever going to happen. We just have to try and secure our own happiness.

i dont think of women as objects. and id rather meet a lass in a pub. but i dont see what im doing as any different to a one night stand

Okay, forget about the paying for sex thing. Focus on yourself and your own interests; don't mope around wishing you could get girl, since you're not going to find one if you're not happy with yourself. In time a decent woman will come into your life whom you will want to start a relationship with. Don't view every woman who's had a past as "damaged goods" - rather accept who they are in the present and take note of whether they've learned from their previous experiences.

I don't expect you to settle for a lass who's only after financial support or a father for her children, but neither do I expect you to judge all women the same.

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Trust me; I'd like to be able to wave a magic wand and give everyone their most suitable partners. Unfortunately this is the real world where you, I, and many other men (and ladies) find it difficult to find someone who care for us. A negative outlook doesn't help, trust me I know, so keep your chin-up and you'll find someone.

This is soooo cliche.

My boyfriend is probably one of the sweetest, most gentle men I've ever met. He has never been in trouble before, and the "worst" is that he is divorced (to his high school fling just a big mistake). He is not a bad guy at all.

I've never been attracted to egotistical asssholes.

i like people with substance and sensitivity but also i like people that challenge me and that would permeate into all kinds of relationships i may have