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optimashprime · 07-08-11, 01:46 PM

Talk about your interests

find out what you have in common and what you don't. You can talk about random stuff

just show the girls who you are and what you can be

Madam · 07-08-11, 02:39 PM

using the space bar

warewolf95 · 08-08-11, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Kirk

Do you have any noteworthy hobbies or interests, such as playing guitar or painting? You're more likely to find a decent girl if you're in an area where everyone has a common interest (so, for example, an after-school painting club). It may not help too well with being confident, but you should feel a little more at ease in regards to what you can say since you both have something in common.

As for actually approaching girls; it's a little difficult at first but you'll soon get the hang of it I'd imagine. You need to start off small really - if you take a bus to school then you could ask a girl for the time (make sure you don't have a watch/phone out!) as you wait; it's simple, it's easy, and it just helps develop confidence in approaching.

Yeah, I play guitar and me and my bandmate Mark always have them with us, and people are always like "you play guitar?!" No clubs or anything, but the girl I like is really nice and into music... but she's taken right now.

Kirk · 08-08-11, 10:04 AM

Girls tend to find men who play musical instruments more appealing/attractive, so you've already got a head-start.

hallace · 09-08-11, 12:43 AM

A good trick to use against yourself is not even try to get a girl. Yea it makes no sense but if you aren't trying to get a girl then your less likely to start freaking out.

Try to use the same mood and mindset you have when you are with a good friend, when you are with a girl.

Oh and throw in some wit when ever possible, there is no such thing as to much wit!

Go along with the advice above, like usual its great. (so there is no meat on the bone for me haha)

warewolf95 · 10-08-11, 05:39 AM

No im not freaking out or anything, but its just kinda annoying.

ABLues · 12-08-11, 09:44 PM

what i do is that i flatter them, always try to be original specially with the first word, they are crucial, i talk a lot in other languages (i know spanish, english, italian and french) and i am very poetic, this may seem to many of you like copied from a movie or a tv show but i it works for me and thats actually how i am