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Rose Madder · 09-08-11, 02:23 AM

As J0hn said: maybe they find you attractive, maybe they find you weird. It's not that easy to say.

youngMC · 09-08-11, 05:06 AM

@DeepDistress - That makes sense, I'm just surprised since there are over 10 guys doing bench presses and heavier weights, and I'm the one getting the looks from the girls. lol

@hallace - I was walking around a corner, and I happened to look up and the 2 girls did too, I was about 15 feet away. I looked at my I-pod after, but from my peripheral vision I could see them watching me still.

@ Rose Madder - Yeah, I was just wondering since I've been getting a lot of glances. I hope they don't find me weird lol.

Usually when this happens I look at them too, but then turn away. By doing this am I sending them a message that I'm not interested? Because I am, I just get a bit shy and its become a habit.

Kirk · 09-08-11, 05:18 AM

Simple really; they're either looking at you because they find you attractive, they've noticed you looking at them, or they're just curious.

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Originally Posted by youngMC

Usually when this happens I look at them too, but then turn away. By doing this am I sending them a message that I'm not interested? Because I am, I just get a bit shy and its become a habit.

Either they take it as you're not interested or they make the assumption you're shy. I wouldn't worry about it too much, just so long as next time (if you want something to happen) you give them a smile and see how they react.

Don't worry, I do the whole "turning away" thing as well. Force of habit, but at the end of the day it's not a true indication of how someone feels.

SeanHaste · 09-08-11, 05:29 AM

not one girl barely looking at me cos im not cute enough to be but go over and and say hi. dont be scared just be yourself

good luck bro

Gray · 09-08-11, 05:39 AM

wink , smile , grin ... and talk to them

i wish girls were looking at me that much LOL!

youngMC · 09-08-11, 06:24 AM

@Kirk - I'll definitely try to give a smile or something, but I'm not desperate or anything. Good to know I'm not rh only person who does the turn away thing lol.

@SeanHaste - I don't think I'm cute either lol, idk what they find interesting in to be honest. I know once I start talking to them my shyness will go away, its just starting a conversation or the courage to go up to them thats the problem. And thanks!

@Gray - LOL. I really don't know what it is. I'm not even looking for attention either. Yeah, I will smile next time, maybe that will work lol.