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His "love" for another woman will effect your relationship. He has to make the choice of who he cares for the most, because there can't be two of you in the picture. If he chooses to stay with you then ideally he has to sever all contact with her. Or you make the choice, which is to break-up with him and find someone who's heart belongs to you only. Either way; you both have to sit down and talk about this civilly and as soon as possible. Take that whilst he hasn't acted on his feelings (which is a good thing!), he has lied to you from the beginning - naturally your trust in him must be very shaken by now.

The relationship doesn't need to end, but he has to recognise that he's hurting you and he has to take steps to ensure that doesn't happen any longer.

no you cant kill yourself. i am sorry that he did this to you. all i can say is. that there are many guys in the would. and i am sure there is a few friends that like you.

I don't have friends....

the emptiness will haunt you

Wow..... really. I think you should go and speak to him about this situation. If he loves you and another girl then he is not ready to have a stable relationship with anyone.


When you love someone you mean it. If your boyfriend loves you he wouldn't fall in love with someone else. He would be with you and respect you. Maybe you are not meant for each other.

Don't put yourself down or anything for any guy as they are not worth to be down for anyways. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and 10 months to be precise and yet until this day we do have little arguements which is normal in a couple but he respects me and I respect him but he doesn't go around and tell me or anyone that he loves someone else. If he ever said that well I would firstly speak to him and ask him who do you want ? Me or her. His answer will explain and if he hesitates then I will say well you don't love me then if you hesitate. But I never had this problem so it was just an example dear.

I hope this helps and I am very sorry. :(

Well I said he loved her first...

the emptiness will haunt you

you can say you dont have any friends.you have got to have like 1 or 2.

I don't... There's people i know at work but they're not really friends

the emptiness will haunt you

try and get to know them better and maybe something will come of that

I am sorry dear. This is so just a part of life.
You should attempt to make the best of your situation. Allow your boyfriend some space so he can clear his own head, and continue building your friendships with your roommates.

that sucks