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Old 08-08-11, 11:04 PM   #1
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Default my boyfriend is in love with another girl.....
- and has been since before he met me
- and lied to me about it
- and im staying in her house temporarily(maybe for a few months)






Can i just kill myself now. please.









the emptiness will haunt you

i shut my eyes and once again the pleasure strangles me;i taste the tears of sweet indulgence,pain,and fantasy.
and how can you look at me when i can't stand myself?
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Old 09-08-11, 12:06 AM   #2
 
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I'm very sorry to hear that. :(

You do not deserve to be treated like that. You are a great girl and an awesome girlfriend.

You know I'm always here if you need to talk.

I will always have your back.








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Old 09-08-11, 02:35 AM   #3
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How did you find this out, if you don't mind me asking?

I'm really sorry to hear this.
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Old 09-08-11, 02:47 AM   #4
 
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Default Re: my boyfriend is in love with another girl.....
Even if you love him, I think you should break up, because it's simply pointless - he never loved you. But first - who told you about that? How long are (were?) you together? How does the girl your boyfriend is in love with feel about him? Does she know about his feelings? Why did he want to be with you, if he was in love with another girl? Don't answer if you don't want to. I'm just trying to understand this situation.

It's kind of f*cked up. I'm really sorry for what happened to you.




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Old 09-08-11, 08:30 AM   #5
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Default Re: my boyfriend is in love with another girl.....
I could always tell but he told me no so I just believed him... Now that im staying at her house I asked his brother.
I don't think she knows and she has a boyfriend.
We've been together 2 years....


Just fuck this...i can't be second best... My self esteem can't take it









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Old 09-08-11, 09:37 AM   #6
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I'm really really sorry about this and I can't even imagine how you must be feeling right now and how hard this is for you.

But as you said, you can't be second best and don't let him keep you as second best because you are far better than that.

Once again, I'm sorry that you're having to go through this and I hope that everything gets better for you.








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Old 09-08-11, 09:41 AM   #7
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I'm sorry to hear that. That's a terrible thing to happen to somebody. That's got to be one tough thing to deal with. Sorry I can't be of too much more help. I hope things start looking up for you soon here.
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Old 09-08-11, 09:48 AM   #8
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It's a tough thing to actually get past.
Has he cheated on you with this girl or just still in love with her?
You know what they say action speak louder than words.
I'd advice you to take a break from your boyfriend and ask him what he really wants.
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Old 09-08-11, 02:17 PM   #9
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You're a nice girl; I'm sure you'll find someone worth your time and who will love you.
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Old 09-08-11, 04:08 PM   #10
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No he hasn't cheated he just likes her.

And Kirk, he does love me... Its just he loves someone else too..... And I know im not gonna find anyone who will treat me better so im scared to break up or take a break :/









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